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Re: I had a gentleman have a heart-attack during one visitconfused_smile
ATLDAWG 813 reads
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If that happens to me drag me outside-get me away from the property if possible at all-don't need anyone aware of where I was when "This" occurred or under what circumstance !!  Thanks !!

Posted By: cluck49chuck
I just signed up on this board because I am a widower that is starting on an adventure to safely see providers during my business trips that have me travel often.  
 I would hope that if anything were to happen to me...I would want her to do as Haley did. I plan on seeing quite a few ladies!  
   
Posted By: HaleyOrlando
This was a number of years ago and knew each other for a long time. He said he was sick and he looked real bad. his excuse was something he ate at lunch was bad.  
     
  Luckily he parked at a side door that was located a few doors down from my room. Well known gentleman late 70's didn't want to embarrass his family. I helped walk him to his car and sat him on the passenger side front seat of his car. Drove a few blocks to a small plaza and he got out and into drivers side then dialed 911. I sat in the Dunkin Donuts watching them take him away. He was in the hospital a long time but did make it home eventually. Sorry to say we could never regain our visits and he passed away later that year.    
     
  You do what you can safely do so as not to risk someones life. Had I known how bad my friend was I think I would have dialed 911 from the hotel. Perhaps those extra minutes getting help would have made his life prolonged and much healthier. I said that to him but he assured me I did exactly what he wanted and wouldn't have wanted it handled any other way.    
     
  Kisses Haley

Has a client ever had a serious medical emergency while in your company?

If so, what did you do?  

If not, what would you do if it ever happens?

This was a number of years ago and knew each other for a long time. He said he was sick and he looked real bad. his excuse was something he ate at lunch was bad.

Luckily he parked at a side door that was located a few doors down from my room. Well known gentleman late 70's didn't want to embarrass his family. I helped walk him to his car and sat him on the passenger side front seat of his car. Drove a few blocks to a small plaza and he got out and into drivers side then dialed 911. I sat in the Dunkin Donuts watching them take him away. He was in the hospital a long time but did make it home eventually. Sorry to say we could never regain our visits and he passed away later that year.  

You do what you can safely do so as not to risk someones life. Had I known how bad my friend was I think I would have dialed 911 from the hotel. Perhaps those extra minutes getting help would have made his life prolonged and much healthier. I said that to him but he assured me I did exactly what he wanted and wouldn't have wanted it handled any other way.  

Kisses Haley

cluck49chuck1393 reads

I just signed up on this board because I am a widower that is starting on an adventure to safely see providers during my business trips that have me travel often.
I would hope that if anything were to happen to me...I would want her to do as Haley did. I plan on seeing quite a few ladies!

Posted By: HaleyOrlando
This was a number of years ago and knew each other for a long time. He said he was sick and he looked real bad. his excuse was something he ate at lunch was bad.  
   
 Luckily he parked at a side door that was located a few doors down from my room. Well known gentleman late 70's didn't want to embarrass his family. I helped walk him to his car and sat him on the passenger side front seat of his car. Drove a few blocks to a small plaza and he got out and into drivers side then dialed 911. I sat in the Dunkin Donuts watching them take him away. He was in the hospital a long time but did make it home eventually. Sorry to say we could never regain our visits and he passed away later that year.  
   
 You do what you can safely do so as not to risk someones life. Had I known how bad my friend was I think I would have dialed 911 from the hotel. Perhaps those extra minutes getting help would have made his life prolonged and much healthier. I said that to him but he assured me I did exactly what he wanted and wouldn't have wanted it handled any other way.  
   
 Kisses Haley

ATLDAWG814 reads

If that happens to me drag me outside-get me away from the property if possible at all-don't need anyone aware of where I was when "This" occurred or under what circumstance !!  Thanks !!

Posted By: cluck49chuck
I just signed up on this board because I am a widower that is starting on an adventure to safely see providers during my business trips that have me travel often.  
 I would hope that if anything were to happen to me...I would want her to do as Haley did. I plan on seeing quite a few ladies!  
   
Posted By: HaleyOrlando
This was a number of years ago and knew each other for a long time. He said he was sick and he looked real bad. his excuse was something he ate at lunch was bad.  
     
  Luckily he parked at a side door that was located a few doors down from my room. Well known gentleman late 70's didn't want to embarrass his family. I helped walk him to his car and sat him on the passenger side front seat of his car. Drove a few blocks to a small plaza and he got out and into drivers side then dialed 911. I sat in the Dunkin Donuts watching them take him away. He was in the hospital a long time but did make it home eventually. Sorry to say we could never regain our visits and he passed away later that year.    
     
  You do what you can safely do so as not to risk someones life. Had I known how bad my friend was I think I would have dialed 911 from the hotel. Perhaps those extra minutes getting help would have made his life prolonged and much healthier. I said that to him but he assured me I did exactly what he wanted and wouldn't have wanted it handled any other way.    
     
  Kisses Haley

If it ever happened to me I hope the lady would call 911 IMMEDIATELY!  I could care less if there are raised eyebrows about where I was or what I was doing when it happened.  Seconds count!  Get me that ambulance ASAP!!!

Bordello69518 reads

Hi Miss Haley,
I have been away from the forum for awhile and it's good to be back on.  While you  story is sad it also shows that many providers care about their ??? clients.  I feel you did the right thing and I hope you're not carrying any type of guilt over it.

As us guys get LOL  more mature we know we are on borrowed time, at least I do and hope that most others do also.

Thanks for your  post,
Bordello69  :)))

We always spent long lunches out at nice restaurants. He loved martinis and a good hamburger which I thought was a strange combination. He used the restroom  at least 4 times during our 2 hour lunch which was normal for his age 80's and my experience with him. He complained about indigestion which I would have myself if I gobbled up the food he did.

Arrived to our hotel room he really mentioned how upset his stomach was and got sick in the bathroom ...  meaning up-chucked lunch. For me that was alarming for a gentleman his age and that was when I said you need to see a doctor since it went the other direction as well. Classy very high profile man now is very embarrassed and I want to help anyway I can.  That's when we moved to the car for him to seek help while we sill were able to. I had no idea it was a heart problem or I would have had a hard time doing what he asked me to.

I would call him my ATF, sugar daddy, best friend, mentor who gave me wonderful gifts and made me feel like a princess. He was my first and lasted close to 25 years. When I moved to Orlando for personal reasons I would drive south to meet him in a hotel close to the Palm Beach area every week. I didn't know what hourly rates were in those days just a nice relaxing friendly diversion from my everyday life. Yes, there is guilt and what if's.  

Would I make the same choice now .... If I knew it was his heart I would have tried to talk sense into his thoughts but he was old school so not sure it would work.

I'm sure if I knew a man was having heart trouble, getting help makes sense but what if the man chooses to do it the way my friend did ? Do you listen to his request or do what you feel is the safest way to handle these things. Is the man even going to say anything more than what my friend did. Who would think food poisoning could be a heart attack. I didn't !

PS : On a lighter side and for old time sake

He seldom took his clothes off but stayed fully dressed. He worshiped my beautiful blonde haired pussy like it was his most treasured possession. I always wore white cotton and lace panties that he spent a fortune on and would pull them aside and eat my pussy for hours. Never ever cared if he got off and everything was all about me.  

Kisses Haley

Taking a few aspirin (chewable are best) at the onset of a heart attack really works to open the blood vessels.  It can buy the time needed to get you to the ER.  I carry them with me even though my heart is in fine shape just because you never know for sure, and they are a cheap and easy remedy.

It would probably behoove gals to keep a bottle of them in your bag of tricks.

"For people who are having a heart attack. You can take aspirin to help you during a heart attack. After you call 911 or other emergency services, the operator may tell you to chew 1 adult-strength or 2 to 4 low-dose aspirin. Or you might be given aspirin in the ambulance or emergency room. Aspirin slows blood clotting. So a blood clot that is causing the heart attack stays smaller." ( see link below for entire article)

the above quoted from the link below
Ya, I say EVERYONE should carry a bottle of Bayer chewable aspirin!  
I know I am gonna get some in my purse today! I would hate to know about it,  and something happen, and not have it handy!

Great post!  
peace and well being to all
XO

Bayer makes Quick Release Crystals for this purpose.  I have them in multiple locations, just in case.

I recall that former vice president Nelson Rockefeller died of a heart attack and it turned out it occured when he was banging his much younger girlfriend.  Believe the press didn't go overboard on it.  Guess he went out with a smile on his face.

fasten123man621 reads

get in trouble health wise, I am in good hands. she will know what to do.  
since so many guys are older, maybe more providers could take classes about health events.

and most local chapters of the Red Cross will give them for free or very little cost.

In my state even construction workers on public projects must have CPR training as part of an overall 10 hour safety program.

would take the survival of her guest seriously.  Give this some thought.  
 
Call 911.
Call front desk because Rescue will be showing up & they need to know how to direct them.  Just dumb to have a Rescue respond with Lights & Siren & then get hung up in an elevator wasting life saving time.  The Hotel protocall might include holding an elevator or directing to one large enough for a gurney.  
Unlock room door.
Perform first aid to the best of your knowledge & ability...    
Throw a robe on or something if you have time but remember your dignity is not worth a life.  
When EMTs arrive, grab your clothes & bolt for the bathroom.        

A Favorite lady (a different Fav for those who are keeping score) had a asthma attack in the last seconds of our session.  She used her inhaler but they take time to take effect...  a frighteningly long time!  She said I could leave but I declined until I was sure she'd be alright.  We both got dressed.  If things had gone to hell, I was prepared to call for help

and so kind of you to stay with your gal!  
 a true gentleman ;-)
bless you

Following this scenario out a step further...  call 911 & run out?  If it's a room rented in HER NAME...  that accomplishes nothing & possibly puts her at legal risk.  
If its a room rented in HER NAME & she stays, get's dressed.  
She's not going to be working from that room after all the attention.  Pack up & check out.  

If it's an outcall to HIS HOTEL, I submit her/his duty is to perform first aid only to the limits of her knowledge & ability.  Admit the EMTs when they arrive, answer what questions she can.  She might be able to get dressed (into the bathroom) & walk away, in the confusion.  She might even choose to go down a stair to avoid the lobby.  Going down stairs is pretty effortless, not like going up.      

Posted By: harbor_view
would take the survival of her guest seriously.  Give this some thought.  
   
 Call 911.  
 Call front desk because Rescue will be showing up & they need to know how to direct them.  Just dumb to have a Rescue respond with Lights & Siren & then get hung up in an elevator wasting life saving time.  The Hotel protocall might include holding an elevator or directing to one large enough for a gurney.    
 Unlock room door.  
 Perform first aid to the best of your knowledge & ability...    
 Throw a robe on or something if you have time but remember your dignity is not worth a life.    
 When EMTs arrive, grab your clothes & bolt for the bathroom.        
   
 A Favorite lady (a different Fav for those who are keeping score) had a asthma attack in the last seconds of our session.  She used her inhaler but they take time to take effect...  a frighteningly long time!  She said I could leave but I declined until I was sure she'd be alright.  We both got dressed.  If things had gone to hell, I was prepared to call for help.    
   
 

If it's not critical...  yet...  one has time to get dressed, aspirin, walk out if the person still can.   I feel that would be the test...  if one got dressed & was still able to walk.   A lot depends on the location of emergency services...  if you are in a strange city, don't know where the nearest hospital is or it's distant.  
If it's close & you know where it is.  Remember, in many jurisdictions, hospital personnel will not go to the parking lot.  That's only on TV.  They are not equipped to immobilize or transport. You might be able to run in & get a wheel chair but often, they are not readily available either.  If you arrive at the ER entrance & he can't get out...  he could die right there.  It's almost a roll of the dice...  
BTW, I hate ERs...

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