I say this because one of the biggest lies in the club is that a stripper will agree to see you outside the club but she never plans on following thru. She'll promise you things, give you her phone number, then string you along, all the while she's just trying to get you back to the club to buy some more VIPs.
Many stripclub noobs are scammed like this. Just beware of the game she might be playing.So I met a stripper the other day who is interested in creating a provider type of relationship. We totally hit it off and everything but I'm thinking if this would be riskier than a provider that has a reputation here, and other places. I'm thinking that if I get a room and ask the stripper for an outcall situation, that may be safer than having her come to my home but no guarantee she'll show up alone or whatever else may happen. A provider here at last has to worry about maintaining a reputation so I'm thinking this might be a better choice. This would be my first time partaking in this hobby so I may be just being paranoid. I would definitely appreciate any advice though. Thanks!
I suspect, not much, whereas if you go for a well reviewed escort, you'll have all that to rely on.
I don't know if there is any reason in particular you selected this gal (Or did she select you?), but I'd say you are on thin ice here, so think very hard about it, regardless of where you meet her.
You're absolutely correct. I don't know anything about her other than a conversation we had at a strip club. At first I thought it was a great idea but now I'm realizing she could potentially targeting and scamming men that she comes across at the club. The only thing that I felt better about is that the situation would be more of a casual gf that I help pay bills occasionally. I feel like it might make a problem with LE less likely.
I'm leaning towards a provider from here but I do worry about getting into a bad situation due to my inexperience.
What's the world coming to?
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I say this because one of the biggest lies in the club is that a stripper will agree to see you outside the club but she never plans on following thru. She'll promise you things, give you her phone number, then string you along, all the while she's just trying to get you back to the club to buy some more VIPs.
Many stripclub noobs are scammed like this. Just beware of the game she might be playing.
as others have said, you know nothing about her. At least with providers, you can research her, with strippers, you can't. Since you seem to be new to this, stick to well reviewed providers until you have some experience under your belt.
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I did. And your concerns is why I turned to the internet to make full blown independent business.
Most likely you will be fine, just ask her questions and set boundaries.
or a provider for that matter. Curious neighbors, a provider who might be there to do case your place for her BF robber to visit, etc. Remember, this is an illegal business and sometimes that leads to other illegal acts. DISCLAIMER: 99% of the well-reviewed ladies here on TER are very safe to be with. There is that very small percentage where things could go wring.
Your concerns may very well be warranted, but she could just be interested in making some extra money with a client that she likes. Kill two birds with one stone. I have frequented many strip clubs, on two occasions those long talks and exchanging on numbers has lead to OTC sex. Another occasion the lady was just looking to make some extra money. I saw her the next day, paid my fee and that was that. I'd go with what Some have said and be cautious of inviting her to your home (at least initially). When you get more of a warm and fuzzy about her intentions, maybe then you could take it there.
You already know what she looks like. Or at least you know what she looks like all glammed up at the club that is. lol
If you are worried about getting rolled, why not go to the hotel and check in together? Nothing is risk free, but keep in mind, if she is out there "trick rolling" she would have to give up her job at the strip club after robbing you as you would know right where to find her.
Personally, I have fucked a lot of strippers over the years, but it's not really my thing anymore. I have brought several home with me and while I had a few drugged out strippers cause a bit of drama, I have never been outright rolled in all my years of doing this The larger risk is that she is just stringing you along, making more money by "promising" to fuck you than she would be actually fucking you.
Most likely you wouldn't sleep for a week if you brought her to your own home, so my advice is if you aren't seeing her "after work" in which case the two of you could drive to the hotel together, just arrange to meet her at a hotel of your choosing and wait for her to show up before checking in. To make yourself feel even safer, pick a hotel, not a motel, and get one where anyone going upstairs to the rooms has to go through the lobby which should be full of cameras just on the off chance she is setting you up to get robbed.
but what would be the next step if she robbed him at a hotel and there are cameras in the lobby? would he then contact the police? wouldn't he have to incriminate himself?
It's only against the law to "Pay" a stripper to fuck you.
Additionally, robbery and assault trump solicitation on the hierarchy of "real" crimes where the cops are concerned.
Hookers screen and try to get your "real" info in case you commit a crime against them. In the most extreme example they want their murderer to be caught if they end up booking a session with Ted Bundy. The same thing goes for the guys. A cheap motel with doors that open up to the parking lot is the riskiest situation you can put yourself as some thug can simply kick your door in, rob you and be gone in less than a minute. Going through a crowded lobby, up through the elevators, down the hall to your room is a lot riskier situation FOR THE CROOK. and a lot safer for you.
Guys are "trick rolled" all the time. Is a stripper a higher risk than a "well reviewed TER provider"? yes she is, can you make the risk manageable? Yes you can with a little common sense. LE always likes to "control the environment" for good reason. There is no reason us mongers can't live by the same rules. Checking into a hotel together with a stripper is just one way to "control the environment" She can't have a guy waiting in the closet if you check in together. Nor can she claim she had "nothing to do with it" is she is on tape checking in with you, and then on tape again leaving with the guy that just robbed you. Only the most foolish and reckless would be robbers would put themselves in a position where they are all but guaranteed to get caught.
You are a newbie you need to do your research here and other sites to make sure a provider is reputable.
A stripper you met at a strip club is going to tell you what you want to hear while you are in the strip club.
She might not have any intentions of ever seeing you outside of the club or she might be genuine in taking you up on your offer.But do not bring her to your home this is not a provider who you have researched in advance.
My advice would be to post on your local board here asking providers if anyone is newbie friendly.If someone piques your interest go from there but your first time with a stripper on an outcall to your home just sounds like a disaster in my opinion.
If you really want to do it like GAG said get a hotel room but you still run the risk of being upsold not getting the service you expected,paying way more for mediocre service.
Just my .02
Thanks for the feedback, I really appreciate it. I decided to go with a well reviewed provider. The woman I met may be genuinely just interested in making some cash on the side and isn't up to anything but it does seem like the riskier move. Thanks again.
So I tried making a date with a well established and reviewed provider, everything seemed to be set a day then the day of, she didn't respond to any form of communication, call/text/email and did not show up. Cost me a room and a few hours of my weekend. Definitely not a great way to start off this hobby.