...what your profile says. There is a button on your profile that says Report a Problem. Click it and tell TER what needs changing. You could have done that when you decided to start doing covered bj. (I'm assuming you didn't know.)
I recommend reading any and all FAQ's and guidelines like the first post by Board Admin at the top of this page. Then look around and click on anything you see but don't know what it is or does and check it out.Hi all! Do you think it is impossible to be profitable in this industry offering a gfe experience and only offering cbj instead of bbj?
So I'm new, obviously, I did offer bbj when I first started, which is included in my only review. I have since decided to stop offering that specific service and instead offer a less popular "safer" version of that same service. Well, since that change my inbox has transformed from this burgeoning source of potentially fun encounters to a perpetual source of moths.. crickets.... spiderwebs!
It's not that I don't enjoy bbj, nothing could be farther from the truth actually! I just keep thinking about my health. But I've realized that if I were to take home a random guy at a bar I wouldn't question it and the circumstances would be just as risky.
So now I find myself feeling silly for having put off or offended the hobbyists who were looking for bbj (and who were great btw) and who expressed feeling singled out and possibly rejected or deemed not good enough by me for refusing bbj for them since I have a review stating that I do it. When I was actually refusing for everyone.
TL;DR I used to offer bbj. I stopped offering bbj. I have lost a lot of business and want to offer bbj again, how do I go about advertising this with my almost nonexistent reputation without sounding crude?
I did the same thing and posted about it in general discussion. I always opted for CBJ...but after doing a lot of reading, BBJ is a low risk and I had a change of heart. As long as you don' t see any open sores or you have sores in your mouth. Still, you shouldn't do something you aren't comfortable with.
I just have a tendency to absentmindedly chew the inside of my cheeks. Since I've started working I keep trying to snap myself out of it as soon as I realize I'm doing it but it's an ollllllld habit lol. I'm assuming your business is doing much better since you've added bbj?
I really appreciate you sharing! I felt so silly for putting myself in this position.
I totally understand.. welll I guess I should say that NOW I totally understand. I really had no idea it could affect my business so much. I'm still learning and growing in this industry. Thanks for the input!
...I'd say be honest about it in your ads on your TER regional ad board like you did here.
You can also mention in your ads in other places that your profile here is now accurate.
If you're on P411 you can say it there to.
This was fantastic advice thank you so much! There are so many rules and regulations for the discussion board and I've heard too many stories about drama and arguments, I was so apprehensive about posting. Everyone has been very helpful and kind. I'm so grateful!
To be completely honest, a lot or the majority of hobbyist simply don't find much sense in paying $300 for a CBJ. Although I have seen a couple of ladies that only offered CBJ, in most of those cases they offered something that was a bit of a trade off IMO i.e. body, MSOG, outfit requests, etc. There are hobbyist out there who prefer and request CBJ during their sessions as long as kissing, MSOG still apply. But for the most part, clients want something that they fantasize about. Although it's still fellatio, there is something both carnal and animalistic about a gorgeous woman devouring your man-hood bare. Mentally it just seems more erotic.
Perhaps you could offer both GFE and Non-GFE sessions, which would give your potential clientele the option to choose. I used to see a lady (about 4 or 5 times) that I was very fond of but then very suddenly she went from $300 GFE session to $300 Non-GFE with $100 extra for GFE. Still a decent deal, but It seemed like an up-sell ploy and it kind of turned me off toward seeing her again.
So many eye opening perspectives! I really have no qualms with offering bbj. I often find myself absentmindedly chewing the inside of my cheeks. I've gotten better at "waking up" and catching myself since I've started working but it's a really old habit! But I think bbj is def here to stay for me, plus a little discipline never hurt anyone right 
With your next client, ask him if he will make a special point to mention in his review that you gave him a bare BJ, not a covered BJ. Mention it on your site. Make a big deal about it.
I almost never will see a provider who doesn't offer CIM. I would never, ever see one who only did CBJ.
...looking for a provider who does offer the uncovered version; CBJ is a deal breaker for me and I read reviews, her posts, her profile, all looking for info that tells me what I need to know.
Once a provider gets a review(s) with CBJ, it can be a difficult and longer process to reverse, should you decide to go back to offering the bare version. Keep at it in your posts, mention it in ads (where you can discretely do that) and ask for specific mention in reviews.
Best of luck either way.
As others have said, you have to do what allows you sleep at night. I am just the opposite. I will not see ladies that offer BBBJs during their sessions. Why should I pay for something I don't want. Also, your problem may have been the fact that you were offering non-GFE at GFE prices. Just another point of view.
ask to have your profile changed to BBBJ.
Whenever I see a discrepancy between a profile or reviews (BBBJ vs CBJ or anything else for that matter) I will PM several reviewers to ask for clarification.
That was part of the problem, clients were expecting it but not able to get it. She now wants to get the word out that she is doing bbbj again like when she first started (and like her info on TER says).
...what your profile says. There is a button on your profile that says Report a Problem. Click it and tell TER what needs changing. You could have done that when you decided to start doing covered bj. (I'm assuming you didn't know.)
I recommend reading any and all FAQ's and guidelines like the first post by Board Admin at the top of this page. Then look around and click on anything you see but don't know what it is or does and check it out.