It seems that this is a catch 22 for a provider especially if she is travelling.If she appears not to be very busy then we hobbyists tend to think that perhaps she isn't very good or she would be more popular.On the other hand,if she appears to be very busy,then we may feel that we are part of an assembly line.Damned if she does,and damned if she doesn't.

Mr. Bastard....and I mean that with all due respect. LOL! I am just teasing you. I pondered just how to address you without sounding disgruntled. ~giggles~ Would I say Mr. Fat, Fat Bastard or Mr.Bastard...they all sound pretty offensive so please know I address you as such because that is your screen name, and not because I am being a smart a$$.

I cannot imagine anyone who would see that many people in any given week. I have always thought it polite to thank gentlemen for keeping my dance card full. It is never booked to that compacity I can assure you. That is not my style. I believe in making the meeting special for all concerened. I believe in cleanliness as well as having impeccable hygiene. I hope by saying I was booked people realize that this does not mean because a girl is popular she is seeing 20 people a week.

I believe in quality over quantity. I prefer longer dates to shorter ones especially. I had no idea that this message could be concieved in such a way. Yikes. Thank you for making that point for girls like me who do tend to use that kind of verbiage. I guess I should rethink a more graceful way to say thank you for making my week eventful, and not coming off like a revolving door.

I admit I am young and still learning...but oh how I loved to be taught. Does this mean because I have broken a cardinal rule that I have to be spanked? If so.....ummmm.......Oh well it is off to work I go soon..if the select gentleman seeing me tonight are reading this...DO NOT bring your whips or floggers...that is where I draw the line... LOL! Have a good day everyone. xoxoox Much Affection To You All.

New England's Best Kept Secret

Your Secret Seductress

Hott Stacey

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The booked status doesn't bother me.  However, I do tend to shy away from the "you must follow the following forty-nine creterion if you want me to consider you" situations.  I kind of want encounters to be friendly.  Sometimes, it feels like I start wondering if it will be friendly with some many "do this, don't do that" prerequisites.  I don't mean screening or act things.  It is just a vibe thing that I perceive in some posts/adds/websites.  It kind of makes me feel like I am going to be judged in ways that are harsh.  Oh well, perhaps it is just me being overly sensitive.

Regards,

JT

Re:Is it just me?......................

I like to spread appointmens out during a week spand.  i don't like the double booking thing or the revolving door situation.  I tell guys I am booked some times because I am.  Not because I have one appointment after another.  I like to book an hour appointment and leave an hr in between.  That way I can jump in the shower, freshen up my make up and hair, and freshen up the room too, make sure the refreshments are hot/cold.  I hate rushing around to get ready for another appointmet so I just book appointments very spread out.  That way there isn;t the revolving door factor.  I also joke and say it is pretty gross to have one guy leaving and one guy arriving at the same time.  The guy arriving is thinking "Oh my gosh!  I feel realy special now".  Not a good way to set the mood for any friend who takes the time to visit you.  That is how I book.  

In other words if I say I am booked. It doesn't necessarily mean I've see, I don't know how many guys.  But that I know if i want to give you my full attention and treat you right. Then making an appoinntment on another day would be best.  I had no idea as well as many other ladies that saying "I am booked". may be looked upon poorly.  Thanks.  It is good to know for future reference.

Tia