Use to be that it took a provider a few hours or less to screen and set it all up.
I reached out to a provider and gave her more than enough screening information. I was okayed and then... silence. Not exactly silence, but I can't get her to pin down an appt (as she travels). I keep getting I will get back to you but then still nothing. I feel like I am being strung along as she gives me enough attention to keep me hanging on the hope to see her without ever committing. She actively reads my facebook and starts up conversations with me and am not sure if she is feeling me out or lonely. I don't mind the conversation but I also want to meet.
I am very comfortable sending a deposit to her and you would think that would be enough to get her butt moving on nailing down the appt.
I never encountered this before and perhaps my 8 hour date is far too much? I have plans beyond fun and wanted the whole GFE, which she is aware that the majority isn't BCD. I wanted to site see and do a few other things, along with dinner.
Perhaps I should give it a go and ask one last time for a lesser time frame, such as 3 hours (dinner)?
I would normally move on if a provider takes too long, but it is a specialized thing. Plus a lot of mixed messages with her contacting me (not other way around) for chit chat.
Yes, have now asked 3 times for an appt. It is hard when she travels. I'd even travel to her but at this point, I can't be sure of her.
Also, why do providers try to say it takes a few days for screening? Almost all I know of takes 15 mins or less. If I ran my business like some of these providers, I'd be out of business quick.
I'd rather ask you all... your opinions. I do not like texting, social media, emailing back and forth. Just set it up. She's not avoiding me technically but... hm, idk.
I recently decided to try new people and am not having much luck with it.
Use to be that it took a provider a few hours or less to screen and set it all up.
I reached out to a provider and gave her more than enough screening information. I was okayed and then... silence. Not exactly silence, but I can't get her to pin down an appt (as she travels). I keep getting I will get back to you but then still nothing. I feel like I am being strung along as she gives me enough attention to keep me hanging on the hope to see her without ever committing. She actively reads my facebook and starts up conversations with me and am not sure if she is feeling me out or lonely. I don't mind the conversation but I also want to meet.
I am very comfortable sending a deposit to her and you would think that would be enough to get her butt moving on nailing down the appt.
I never encountered this before and perhaps my 8 hour date is far too much? I have plans beyond fun and wanted the whole GFE, which she is aware that the majority isn't BCD. I wanted to site see and do a few other things, along with dinner.
Perhaps I should give it a go and ask one last time for a lesser time frame, such as 3 hours (dinner)?
I would normally move on if a provider takes too long, but it is a specialized thing. Plus a lot of mixed messages with her contacting me (not other way around) for chit chat.
Yes, have now asked 3 times for an appt. It is hard when she travels. I'd even travel to her but at this point, I can't be sure of her.
Also, why do providers try to say it takes a few days for screening? Almost all I know of takes 15 mins or less. If I ran my business like some of these providers, I'd be out of business quick.
I'd rather ask you all... your opinions. I do not like texting, social media, emailing back and forth. Just set it up. She's not avoiding me technically but... hm, idk.
C'mon man, you've asked her 3 times already. And you want to spend 8 hours with her ?
Ever heard the saying, I'll beg for pussy, I'll pay for pussy , but I won't beg to pay for pussy.
Use to be that it took a provider a few hours or less to screen and set it all up.
I reached out to a provider and gave her more than enough screening information. I was okayed and then... silence. Not exactly silence, but I can't get her to pin down an appt (as she travels). I keep getting I will get back to you but then still nothing. I feel like I am being strung along as she gives me enough attention to keep me hanging on the hope to see her without ever committing. She actively reads my facebook and starts up conversations with me and am not sure if she is feeling me out or lonely. I don't mind the conversation but I also want to meet.
I am very comfortable sending a deposit to her and you would think that would be enough to get her butt moving on nailing down the appt.
I never encountered this before and perhaps my 8 hour date is far too much? I have plans beyond fun and wanted the whole GFE, which she is aware that the majority isn't BCD. I wanted to site see and do a few other things, along with dinner.
Perhaps I should give it a go and ask one last time for a lesser time frame, such as 3 hours (dinner)?
I would normally move on if a provider takes too long, but it is a specialized thing. Plus a lot of mixed messages with her contacting me (not other way around) for chit chat.
Yes, have now asked 3 times for an appt. It is hard when she travels. I'd even travel to her but at this point, I can't be sure of her.
Also, why do providers try to say it takes a few days for screening? Almost all I know of takes 15 mins or less. If I ran my business like some of these providers, I'd be out of business quick.
I'd rather ask you all... your opinions. I do not like texting, social media, emailing back and forth. Just set it up. She's not avoiding me technically but... hm, idk.
If your initial contact with a provider throws up red flags, they might consider you a time-waster or some worse kind of trouble. Requesting an 8-hour specialized date for your first appointment with a provider is definitely a red flag. Time wasters often have elaborate requests for a first meeting. One or two hours would be more reasonable, depending on the girl. Some prefer a shorter first appointment, in case the experience is unpleasant. Others prefer a longer (90 minutes or 2 hours) first appointment so that there is time to talk at first and get past any initial awkwardness.
Try to avoid paying a deposit to someone you haven't even met, because there is a good chance you will lose that money and have no realistic way to recover it. That said, if your specialized requirements involve bondage, it is apparently more common to pay a deposit in that kind of situation. And an 8-hour appointment might require some kind of deposit, because a provider could miss out on a lot of earning potential if you are NCNS.
I suggest that you give up on this provider, because you got off to a bad start. Contact someone else and make that first appointment a normal one, say one to two hours long and no specialty stuff. Towards the end of that date, ask questions about your preferred 8-hour experience and see if that is something she will do.
I didn't make any special requests. What I am saying is that she is known for things that most do not do. Not easy to find.
I will contact her once more and ask for a 3 hour dinner date. Then will block her from my FB if she isn't going to set it up. I gave her slack because she is currently out of state. Seems more like a call her now, meet in an hour type (observance) and yes she is highly reviewed.
I just want a session, not a friend.
Deposit was so she'd know I was serious. I typically do long dates and never had an issue before,
Try to avoid paying a deposit to someone you haven't even met, because there is a good chance you will lose that money and have no realistic way to recover it. That said, if your specialized requirements involve bondage, it is apparently more common to pay a deposit in that kind of situation. And an 8-hour appointment might require some kind of deposit, because a provider could miss out on a lot of earning potential if you are NCNS.
I suggest that you give up on this provider, because you got off to a bad start. Contact someone else and make that first appointment a normal one, say one to two hours long and no specialty stuff. Towards the end of that date, ask questions about your preferred 8-hour experience and see if that is something she will do.
Why didn't you start out by telling us this was for an 8-hour session? Also, maybe knowing what specialty you're looking for would help.
I've never had anyone tell me screening will take days. And I don't know where you get 15 minutes from. The lady can't control how fast your references take to get back to her, for instance.
You wouldn't be out of business quickly if your product was illicit sex with attractive, young women. That's just the way the world works.
I don't see any harm adjusting to a 3-hour appointment or shorter. 8 hours is a long time for a first meeting. What if you open the door and hate her, or are immediately turned off by her? That would suck. Never happened to me, but I have been soured during a session, which is a good reason why I never book over an hour the first time. (I never book over two hours, either, so we're different there).
As for the dangling, I wouldn't mind so much because I schedule well in advance. However, if it bothers you enough that she won't just set a damn date, move on. Why not? Unless her specialty is that important, in which case I'd like to know what it is.
your request to set-up a meet.
Move on and don't look back.
The provider in question may not get a lot of date requests for that amount of time so she possibly could be scared she can't perform long enough to satisfy an 8 hour bracket thinking it's 8 straight solid hours of activity in the bedroom (that is a ton of money you're shelling out) or honestly she could think your offer is too good to be true and just isn't taking you seriously. Maybe research her history for reviews that say they were longer than an hour date or mention overnight in them to see if she's more than a hour/half hour provider......hope this helps xoxo