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BluesGuitarMan 289 reads
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Based on the information you present, - ATF, GF, local duos, etc. - it sounds like your best bet is to go with your ATF and the "new" provider who is well-reviewed, but only after letting your ATF see the other woman to judge her attractiveness to her.

Your ATF is telling you she is bi and enjoys oral with other women (the right kind of woman). If I trust her enough to be my ATF, I would trust her enough to help me arrange a great MFF experience. Find a woman you are both attracted to, give her a specific time frame, and have fun!

rando_mn1271 reads

Funds are somewhat limited right now, so I still haven't gotten around to my first threesome. I want two attractive young women who will entertain each other as much as they entertain me. I definitely don't want a threesome where the girls just take turns with me, because then I would be better off with a longer call with just one of them.

I have an ATF who has told me that she enjoys women too. She didn't have any experiences before escorting, and so far there are only three reviews of her with another girl. In all three reviews, there is almost no interaction between the girls besides talking and kissing. But my ATF claims that they have done DATY and 69 with each other in other appointments that just didn't happen to get reviewed. On the other hand, she has complained that the other girl uses fake pics, is out of shape, and is often really late. Solo reviews of the other girl are generally positive, but some confirm the criticism. So this is not the duo I want.

My ATF also suggested a surprisingly specific scenario for a threesome with my GF, who is somewhat uptight about sex but has shown some signs of bi-curiousity. I think the odds of my GF getting cold feet are too high to seriously consider this scenario.

The other possibility with my ATF is that she has another provider who is interested in duos with her. This other provider is on the TER national top 100 list, and she also has several reviews of duos with other providers. All of the reviews are great, and there is always DATY going on between the girls. But as far as I know, my ATF hasn't worked with her yet. I recently emailed my ATF to inquire again, but she tends to ignore emails (even mine) that don't request a specific appointment. My ATF is semi-UTR because she is also busy with grad school.

Should I take my chance on my ATF with the girl that she hasn't worked with yet? Or should I just seek out a different local duo with better reviews? For some reason, the local duos tend to feature older MILFs, which are not my type.

In general, with limited resources (time x money), I would suggest that you avoid any situation about which you do not have a high (near certain) degree of confidence about the outcome. Kind of like a trial lawyer: Do not ask the witness a Q to which you do not already know the answer. You might regret it.

On the other hand, this seems like another Q that could be served by a Women-for-Women board as was recently suggested on the S&P Board. Except the a W-for-W board doesn't exist yet.  

Based on the tone and content of your post, you don't sound very certain.

Good luck. Have fun.

Posted By: rando_mn
Funds are somewhat limited right now, so  ...  
Should I take my chance on my ATF with the girl that she hasn't worked with yet? Or should I just seek out a different local duo with better reviews? For some reason, the local duos tend to feature older MILFs, which are not my type.


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...It sounds like you'd like to keep your ATF involved (well she is your ATF for a reason, right?) but it seems that a duo may not be a strength of hers. Add to this a rather unsatisfying prior experience with only minimal interaction with the other lady and I think that you need to take her out of the picture.  
The idea of your GF is sure an exciting one, but from the sounds of it it is doubtful if it would ever happen. That leaves what is probably your best best - an established duo, or at least a new-to-you lady who (per her website) who not only offers a duo with a pre-picked partner but also meets your non-MILF physical requirements. You mention that a non-MILF provider may be hard to find, but sometimes touring ladies travel together and perhaps a duo from out of town might fit the bill?

You will spend some good $$$ for a 3some and you want your first one to be great. Take your time and hopefully with enought research you'll find the perfect arrangement :)

rando_mn324 reads

Your idea regarding a touring duo sounds potentially great. I will watch the ads. At this time of year, there might not be as much touring activity this far north, but spring is coming.

One other idea just occurred to me. I could connect with the Top 100 girl and ask her to pick another girl for a duo, though it would be funny if she picks my ATF.

Based on the information you present, - ATF, GF, local duos, etc. - it sounds like your best bet is to go with your ATF and the "new" provider who is well-reviewed, but only after letting your ATF see the other woman to judge her attractiveness to her.

Your ATF is telling you she is bi and enjoys oral with other women (the right kind of woman). If I trust her enough to be my ATF, I would trust her enough to help me arrange a great MFF experience. Find a woman you are both attracted to, give her a specific time frame, and have fun!

...you hobby in MN? There are plenty of providers who do doubles here. Depends on what you mean by "older MILFs." Some guys start calling girls MILFs at 25, and I guess a 30 year-old could be an older kind. But that's not what I'd normally expect to see when I hear "older MILF." There are plenty of 20 to early 30-somethings who do duos.  

I recently had my first double experience with a 28 year-old and 32 year-old (at least that's what they say they are), and they didn't look too old to me.

rando_mn227 reads

Yep, Twin Cities. Maybe I was a bit harsh about the age thing, but it seems like the only local provider pairs with multiple good reviews seem to be late 30s or older. For the cost, I want at least the basics of my fantasy. That TER top 100 girl, Victoria Sloan, has several great reviews with other girls, but most have quit the business. Her one double partner who is still around is basically an older version of my ATF. I guess I'm leaning towards Victoria with my ATF, but wish I could see them reviewed first. Worst case scenario, I could wait for my tax refund and then TOFTT.

seen at least one of the ladies for a session prior to the FMF encounter. It also helps if the ladies are familiar with each other.

Good luck and be sure to write a review of your new experience.

First of all, make sure that the ladies advertise that they do doubles with each other. That way you'll know that they have worked together before and they get along pretty well. Secondly, make sure that they indicated they are truly bi on their profiles.

Without asking them to perform any sexual acts, you could let them know that you like to see girls playing with each other.

 Once you're in the session, I recommend that you speak up about what you would like to see. If they care about giving you a good session, they might spend most of the time with you in an effort to please you and not seem self-centered. So if you really want there to be an equal amount of time spent with girl girl activities then you need to encourage that.  

 One final suggestion I have for having a successful doubles encounter is for you to try very hard to spend an equal amount of time with each girl. You have a mouth, two hands, and a cock. Try to always be using something on each girl. It's very easy for somebody to feel left out and get hurt feelings in a three-way session. If somebody loses confidence, then the session can lose some of its magic.  Even if you do prefer one lady over the other, spend an equal amount of time with each.  You can always see your favorite one alone at a future time.  

Have fun!

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Posted By: Freya Fantasia
First of all, make sure that the ladies advertise that they do doubles with each other. That way you'll know that they have worked together before and they get along pretty well. Secondly, make sure that they indicated they are truly bi on their profiles.
I disagree. "Bi" could be a false claim to get higher scores. "Do doubles with each other" is no guarantee that it is nothing more than a tag-team event with the guy. WRITTEN REVIEWS WILL MAKE CLEAR just what the meanings of the claims are.
Without asking them to perform any sexual acts, you could let them know that you like to see girls playing with each other.
Of course, they will say Yes to a Q like that ... but maybe they'll bring a backgammon set to prove it.  WRITTEN REVIEWS WILL MAKE CLEAR just what the meaning of "play together" is.
Once you're in the session, I recommend that you speak up about what you would like to see. If they care about giving you a good session, they might spend most of the time with you in an effort to please you and not seem self-centered. So if you really want there to be an equal amount of time spent with girl girl activities then you need to encourage that.    
   
  One final suggestion I have for having a successful doubles encounter is for you to try very hard to spend an equal amount of time with each girl. You have a mouth, two hands, and a cock. Try to always be using something on each girl. It's very easy for somebody to feel left out and get hurt feelings in a three-way session. If somebody loses confidence, then the session can lose some of its magic.  Even if you do prefer one lady over the other, spend an equal amount of time with each.  You can always see your favorite one alone at a future time.  
   
 Have fun!

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