SEA, SFO, PSP    Thanks for the reply

I haven't noticed frenchy74 participating on the boards very much, but check out her reviews, too.  
[Review] tab at top of page
[New Reviews] [Search Reviews] [Reviews v] ... Choose the 3rd link, [Reviews v] and you'll get a drop down menu.
Choose [Search by reviewers]  
enter lopaw or frenchy74 to see their reviews which will guide you to specific Provider Profiles.

If you find board posts by lopaw, click on the yellow envelope and it will automatically launch the Private Mail (TER's internal mail system).  Or, open Mail, then Compose and enter lopaw (or frenchy74) to start from scratch.  

This all assumes that you are VIP.

Those should come up when you search on "really bi" and can be distinguished by "&" or "and" in the name field.  

This is where having VIP is valuable, not only to do that search but also to read the Details of reviews to see how they play with other ladies.  

And as suggested, there are other female hobbyists here including lopaw. You might take a look at her reviews to see if there's any of those ladies in your area.

and from what I understand it's not something a woman who likes women can necessarily count on to be accurate. With women wanting to keep their scores up in the quest to stay high on the TOP lists it's quite common for providers to state they are "really bi" to be eligible for the higher scores when in reality they are barely "gay for pay" and really don't like interacting with other women at all. This hardly makes for a good session "one on one" for a female monger

As Jake said above, I would seek out the advice and perhaps share notes with lopaw, she is on the right coast and can help you from the female monger perspective while all the rest of us "lesbians trapped in men's bodies" can do for you is speculate.

The good news is, lopaw is a frequent poster on this board and I am sure she will see this thread sooner or later.

Better late than never! At least you're here.

I tried to summon you to this thread. I was wondering if your VIP had lapsed. Anyway, one of those PMs in your inbox that you can't open is from me.

Recommendations for specific providers are best by PM, and perhaps when you and the OP both get VIP you can do that. You can always share general info here on the board if you think it might be helpful to her, like how you go about finding providers that are open to see women hobbyists.  

Thanks for the assist and good luck to the OP.