Posted By: sm47777
Unlike you, I do not take anything (not judging; just giving you a reference point). Am in my early sixties and in really good shape for our age. And I sometimes lose my erection as well. My guess is that, with age & increased experience, it becomes more of a mental thing than the purely physical.
So, if I lose my mental focus on the activity, Peter heads South... Not very flattering for my partner of the day, so I try to recover by suggesting some "new game".
Don't know if this helps, but you are not alone
I'm in the same boat. I only tried Viagra once, and that was about 6 years ago in Amsterdam at a swingers gangbang club (Long story!). I was as hard as a rock all night, but completely lost any sensation after about the 4th round of sex. It felt like it was full of concrete.
When I'm with a provider these days (4 months shy of 60), I get hard at the initial meeting and undressing. But, I lose most of the erection by the time she wants to be satisfied. I act like a washed-up porn star who has to take this firehose and stuff it in. She usually has to finish me by hand.
'Wished I knew what was going on, but, I'm convinced it's between my ears and not between my legs.
I've found myself in the same pattern. There is a peak of excitement, but I can't maintain that peak for too long. I've met some providers that are obviously experienced with this, and they guide me right into the appropriate activity in a timely fashion.
I can control to a certain extent when that peak period is by how we ramp up the foreplay. Kissing and mutual touching is a good time stretcher. My ATF know how to introduce just a little kink and fetish that gets me to a higher plateau. Once she finished me to the point where I was quivering in a mini-epileptic fit and left me laying on the bed like a blob of protoplasm.
Develop your kinks and fetishes only later in life, when you can really use them.
Posted By: Max101
Posted By: sm47777
When I'm with a provider these days (4 months shy of 60), I get hard at the initial meeting and undressing. But, I lose most of the erection by the time she wants to be satisfied. I act like a washed-up porn star who has to take this firehose and stuff it in. She usually has to finish me by hand.
'Wished I knew what was going on, but, I'm convinced it's between my ears and not between my legs.
I know, I know, most of us think about those cheeze penis pumps in the porn store, but seriously, the right (and expensive) ones work.
Two years ago I noticed the ED drugs were not working as well as they had been. My doctor suggested the pump. Some insurance covers them (mine did not cause I have sucky coverage).
When I hobby I take a Cialis and bring my pump. I can get hard during foreplay with no issue, but the time lag between the BJ and the Wrapper causes the erection to go away.
So when we are ready, we stop and I pump. Several providers shared that they get turned on watching my cock grow in the vacuum tube. Once hard, on goes a cock ring and off we go, cock is harder than a normal one would be, and the girls love it!
In fact the head gets extra large which, I have been told, provides a unique and erotic sensation for the provider.
The downside is it is very hard to cum with the rings on, which if you like CIM after sex could be a good thing. In these cases I take the cock ring off once we are done humping, and get a BBBJ without it.
During one session, while fucking, I mentioned to the provider that I was not going to cum while we screwed. Most providers hope off and go straight for the blow job. Not her, she said my cock head felt so good that she wanted to continue. For 15 minuets this gal fucked me in every position to pleasure herself, with my dick. Wow, that was sensational and a huge ego boost.
Good luck guys. Penis pumps are not sexy, but in my case sure does work
