Do you really think whitelist and date-check referrals is in any way gonna protect u in this dangerous game we play?
Angel is right, well reviewed provider's are just as prone to STD's as the next person.
She is not trying to scare anyone, just stateing that STD's do and will happen.
She is emphasizing that everyone, client and provider, get regular check-ups. Even then, their is no guarentee, that you are REALLY clean. It takes awhile for some of these STD's to show up on a blood test.
Why give her a hard time when she is just trying to pass along useful info, seems to me, u would welcome it. By you denying that you will ever contact an STD, by seeing well-reviewed provider's, well, is just plain stupid!!
NOBODY, is above and beyond the risks involved.
Why not listen to someone that has some insight on the subject??
As far as you not seeing her, that's your loss, not her's.