If he's not on any sites (especially TER or P411)or willing to give employment info he's not the type of client you want. Your instincts were good!
This guy called me wanting to schedule me, so I asked if he has any online verification memberships...so he says no.
Since he didnt have it I told him to send me a note through his business email and a picture of his ID to book an appointment. He was completely adamant about not sending that after stating this was his first time so he had no references.
The call got terminated quickly!
I mean, I get how things are when a person is new... but at least make an effort to make me feel safe...
Like with me, I know I don't have reviews but I'm date-check verified and an rs2k member. I do my best to make my date feel safe and comfortable... so... let me know...
Which method do you feel the safest verifying (providers) or being verified (hobbyist)?
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do not disclose your methods of screening in a public site. It's nobody business how you screen and how you make sure you dont end up with a psycho, stalker, criminal or just a bad client.
There's few sites that ladies communicate this type of things. If you don't have access to those. yet; .. try to meet with some well known / reputable ladies in your area and ask these type of questions in private.
It's not about what is the best method for a client to be comfortable.... its WHAT INFORMATION IT'S ENOUGH FOR YOU TO BE COMFORTABLE AND SAFE 
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If he's not on any sites (especially TER or P411)or willing to give employment info he's not the type of client you want. Your instincts were good!
...when she was still a dancer. Most hobbyists won't have that kind of opportunity. If I hadn't had that option I would have signed up for P411 to get started.
I never see 90% of the people who contact me about an appointment. And I don't waste any time on them anymore either. There are so many people out there who are just time wasters. It will become very easy for you to spot the difference between a legitimate client and a time waster after just a few months. But in the beginning you might wonder if you said or did something wrong or what you could've done to make that person want to see you and agree to your reasonable screening requests.
By the way, those same guys who refused to do any screening will probably be a no-show anyways. Before I started doing screening I had a 50% no-show rate.
But, because there are a few men out there who just don't know what they are doing, but who will still make a very good client, I wrote my website with that person in mind. If you have time, take a look at my etiquette and screening pages. They give a very detailed Explanation of the different ways I do screening.
Feel free to contact me off the boards if you need help with anything
Some type of verification service makes life so much easier for hobbyist to get a first date, if there new and refuse to get one of those services, you probably don't want them as customers anyway, don't waste your time with them.