Whenever I meet a provider, I always ask if it's OK for me to shower before we get started. Mainly because I want to make sure that I'm clean and fresh all over. However, on more than one occasion, a provider has given me a wierd look when I told her that I wanted to shower first. What's up with that?
...accompanied with the phrase, "Well, duh!"
If so, I suspect she was expecting that you take a shower and you really didn't need to ask.
although at times I meet someone right after work, so that can't be done. In any case, I've never had a problem with a provider allowing me to shower first at either their home, hotel or whatever.
the last gentleman i saw who reviewed me SAYS he showered before my appointment (at my place). he most definitely did not. he had serious b.o. and butt lint and shit smell wafting up from his behind. maybe he was planning TO shower. but, he did not shower that morning. nor at my place.
i looked at his reviews and interesting enough he has 40 reviews and is consistently giving providers who others give service ratings of 7,8,9,10 scores of 2,3,4,5,6s. this tells me that YOUR hygiene is just about as an important factor as any in determining whether YOU will enjoy your session.
so make sure the morning of your appointment make sure you spend at least 15-30 minutes in the shower. pay special attention to you armpits and genital areas. don't just use deodarant, but rub alcohol on your armpits to kill any bacteria (this is what causes b.o.). stick your finger in your buttcrack and smell it. if it's doesn't smell like soap keep washing until it does.
showering at her place is okay. but, leaving your house funky and taking a 3 minute shower before your session is not enough.
-- Modified on 11/5/2005 9:46:53 AM
There is no way it could have been a weird look unless you said it in Pig Latin. I mean, what woman in her right mind would not want someone she is going to be physically close with to shower beforehand?
Best,
Kate
funky as hell. they are guys who are going to shower as a favor to you. not because showering well like normal people every morning is what they do....
One thing that I have found is that sometimes a towel or a wash cloth is not available. That is why I have started bringing my own towels and washclothes to incall. Then I have to end going to the laundromat to clean them.
A good incall provider does not have this problem.
It is even more fun when we shower together!!!