Well the thread got some interesting comments. Thanks everyone. In summation it appears that it is a bad idea to spread the word about the subject regarding the particular provider. Geronimo gave some insight as to why this could happen. I took Vorlon’s comments as a warning of what could happen if I go VIP and answer the 18+ PMs. I did ask the lady because I do have that concern if she would, and I do like DATY. After all, how is one going to know if one doesn’t ask? The lady shall remain anonymous. I’m rather sorry that I brought it up. Well….back to lurk-hood.