Well the thread got some interesting comments.  Thanks everyone.  In summation it appears that it is a bad idea to spread the word about the subject regarding the particular provider.  Geronimo gave some insight as to why this could happen.  I took Vorlon’s comments as a warning of what could happen if I go VIP and answer the 18+ PMs.  I did ask the lady because I do have that concern if she would, and I do like DATY.  After all, how is one going to know if one doesn’t ask?  The lady shall remain anonymous.  I’m rather sorry that I brought it up.  Well….back to lurk-hood.

Thanks again everyone