Handle it????
Posted by Friend Helper, 10/31/2005 5:06:53 AM  

Ambrat said,"Every person has a past, and we all do things from time to time that we're not proud of.  But I would hope that a woman wouldn't enter into a career on her own volition that she has moral qualms with. So, if we're cool with it, our men need to be too."

Ambrat, don't u think that there are women that enter this profession, because of some past mistakes that they have made (like a drug problem) and see NO OTHER way to pay off some debt that they incurred?? And they really didn't enter  the biz "of their own volition".  This seems to be the case with my friends SO. She seems to be having some emotional problems looking back on what she did (spent all that BCD time with so many different men). It seems to be eating her up emotionally.....don't u feel that this COULD happen to some women. She told him she had no other choice but to do what she did....she didn't like it, didn't want to do it, hated it (but was a good actress like many providers are), it was against her morals and did it ONLY for the money....like u said it was a job. Does this make it any easier to see where I'm coming from?
This originally was posted incorrectly as a new post....this is where it should have been posted