Thanks for the advice. This provider asked for my social media pages...I do not have any facebook or twitter. Can this also be a detriment?
After a few emails, I finally worked up enough courage to apply for screening with my first girl of choice when I found out she was coming to Columbus. I did not have references but provided all employment info (which is a highly respectable occupation, I might add) but I did not hear back from the provider...at all.
Is this common? Should I try again?
Not everyone responds right away every time. Consider joining Preferred411 as a screening service. It will open a lot of doors for you
Is this common? Should I try again?
Thanks for the advice. This provider asked for my social media pages...I do not have any facebook or twitter. Can this also be a detriment?
Social media can be any online presence that you have. I have requested LinkedIn, blogs, links to forum profiles, Personal and/or company websites, and others. I am sure that you have some kind of profile somewhere on the internet where she can view your posts and/or interactions. She just wants to verify your character. Social media tells me a lot about a person. People tell the internet their business and it makes screening a whole lot easier for me. It lets me know whether we would enjoy being in each other's company.
She found bad things about you. They are not obligated to see you or reply, remember this is a privilege .
If you're referring to emails with the lady in question, how many emails are we talking? If there was a ton of back-and-forth before you submitted your screening info, she may have written you off as a timewaster at that point. Alternatively, if she's a touring lady she may be all booked up for her visit.
Send her a follow-up email. If she doesn't respond to that, it's probably best to move on.
Is this common? Should I try again?
I'd email her one more time. After that, just move on. She may be booked or just decide not to take you on as a client. Either way it's worth a shot to try one more time.
This was from a week or so ago. Did you have any luck with her?
It is common. Girls will not continue contact with you once they have decided that they will not meet you. It could be any reason at all. The tone of your email, you didn't pass their screening, or anything you may have said or done to give them a bad impression of you. Since she is touring it is very possible that she did not respond because she is busy with travel planning, other admin work, and other personal life things. Do what Tobi said. Send her a follow up email but give her time to respond. If she does not respond, then she wrote you off.
I didn't realize how confusing simply not responding must be, but I do it because it is the simplest thing to do. Unless, if I have been chatting with a guy for a while and there are a couple of emails or text message in between, I do politely decline to see him before cutting contact.
Sometimes we can get wrapped up with things.
She might appreciate the remonder
I don't know what's happened to here.for me,I have couple of times Idon't feel good/safe about that person,and I don't know how to say to that person,because I am not sure,so I just stop reply email.
most of time happened before the screening.
so ,I sugget you ask her directly.
... but don't expect any response back.
I did contact a "well known" provider who did frequent TER before she retired.
I emailed her once (it was her preferred method of contact).
Didn't hear back from her after 3 days. I did email her one more time.
I finally got a response... from a PM through TER. Odd way of responding.
She did state that she was not available, but didn't give me a reason beyond that.
It's HER loss, not mine.
So, I moved on and found a really great knockout!
Is this common? Should I try again?