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I will only use a form to ask a question...
lopaw 29 Reviews 289 reads
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...and if I get the answer(s) that I'm looking for then I will supply her with any info that I am comfy submitting thru emails only. NO PERSONAL INFO ON FORMS. EVER.

There are a number of providers who require a Contact Form be completed before they will consider making an appointment.  Among the items requested is your real name and employment information in some cases.  I don't mind providing the information in cases where I know the provider is on the level.  My concern are the providers who never respond.  There can be reasons this happens but Ive noticed it enough to wonder what's going on.  Any opinions on this?

...I don't mind giving her information but it will be in an e-mail. I don't have any idea who has control over the on line form. (web designer, provider, both, some other party or parties) I won't give full name or employment info regardless of the type of communication.

The lady has the right to ask. I have the right to decline. I don't ask her to change her requirements for me.

an email to the provider including the requested information. Maybe it is the principle involved.

NoYellowEnvelope374 reads

Ok then...

First, if a provider demands info like real name and employment info, you send her everything she asked for, and then you never hear back from her after a reasonable time, I think that's either inexcusably rude and unprofessional on the part of the provider, or... she found out something about you that scared her away from you to the point she won't risk contacting you again.  

Second, I never provide my real name and employment info for screening.  If my references from long-time providers and my many p411 ok's aren't sufficient, I'll just have to move on.

On a form is first name, email address, hobby phone number and the day and time I want. They don't get refs unless they respond. If they don't respond . . . . . Next!

...and if I get the answer(s) that I'm looking for then I will supply her with any info that I am comfy submitting thru emails only. NO PERSONAL INFO ON FORMS. EVER.

MissLALove276 reads

I use a contact form and it shows me the gent is really serious about seeing me if he fills it out. It also makes screening faster and organized. Just my 2 cents :)  

Posted By: DNEFF
There are a number of providers who require a Contact Form be completed before they will consider making an appointment.  Among the items requested is your real name and employment information in some cases.  I don't mind providing the information in cases where I know the provider is on the level.  My concern are the providers who never respond.  There can be reasons this happens but Ive noticed it enough to wonder what's going on.  Any opinions on this?

I'll fill in that which is requested

Posted By: DNEFF
There are a number of providers who require a Contact Form be completed before they will consider making an appointment.  Among the items requested is your real name and employment information in some cases.  I don't mind providing the information in cases where I know the provider is on the level.  My concern are the providers who never respond.  There can be reasons this happens but Ive noticed it enough to wonder what's going on.  Any opinions on this?
I suggest providing email with P411 information etc and go from there. with enough okays and whitelist on TER, providers would have enough screening information.

No way Inak filling up forms which I have no clue about who is actually getting the info. Will give my p411 details and whitelisted. If that's not acceptable, just move on...

Posted By: DNEFF
There are a number of providers who require a Contact Form be completed before they will consider making an appointment.  Among the items requested is your real name and employment information in some cases.  I don't mind providing the information in cases where I know the provider is on the level.  My concern are the providers who never respond.  There can be reasons this happens but Ive noticed it enough to wonder what's going on.  Any opinions on this?
P411 verification sites.I don't understand why verifcation sites have whitelist.Don't make sense at all.

From my perspective and experience.. good clients are willing to provide information for us ladies feel safe and be happy to meet with them.  
Have you been a good client? I always fast responding to inquiries... unless... I found something that I dont like and dont feel comfortable with.  

Are you talking to the lady respectfully? are you talking about donations and inquiring about illegal services?  

You may want to check these points before completing a form,  

 
Also... for the contact form there's no such of "compromising information". Its like an email acct that is open with my password.

I appreciate those that fill out my form, instead of sending emails back and forth for 3 -4 days to get some information.  
I'm a professional... I provide a service... and I like to be treated with respect.  

Isn't that hard... after all this is about having fu

GaGambler319 reads

I absolutely, positively, 100% REFUSE to fill out one of those insipid forms, but I am a very good client.

and yes, there is some very "compromising information" asked for on most of these screening forms, things such as work info, real name, etc, Things that could be used to ruin a man's life if there is ever a disagreement between him and the escort in possession of this information.

Speaking strictly for myself, I don't mind if a hooker knows my real name or anything else about me, but I am "blackmail proof" and none of this information can be used to "leverage" in the event we have a dispute. Other guys don't have that luxury as they either have a high profile job they could lose or a wife they are cheating on who would take them to the cleaners if some BSC or vindictive hooker were to "out" the fact that they were out fucking hookers.

dipstick50354 reads

I agree with GAG!  Turn it around and ask the said escort to provide the same info to YOU that she is asking of YOU and see what type of response you get.Lol  HELLO? ANYBODY there?

This is the least logical argument against those of us who require personal info. I've said it before and I'll say it again: when clients start having risqué photos and sexually explicit accounts of their sexual performance available for the world to see, only then would the "mutual disclosure" argument hold water.  

For the record, GaG has never said that he has a problem with ladies asking for whatever info they deem necessary to keep ourselves safe and comfortable. He mostly has a really compartmentalized beef with website forms. :D

Posted By: dipstick50
I agree with GAG!  Turn it around and ask the said escort to provide the same info to YOU that she is asking of YOU and see what type of response you get.Lol  HELLO? ANYBODY there?

show you to be very attractive. If you were to visit my part of the USA, I would attempt to schedule a date with you--via email.

Posted By: TurbayVeronica
From my perspective and experience.. good clients are willing to provide information for us ladies feel safe and be happy to meet with them.  
 Have you been a good client? I always fast responding to inquiries... unless... I found something that I dont like and dont feel comfortable with.  
   
 Are you talking to the lady respectfully? are you talking about donations and inquiring about illegal services?  
   
 You may want to check these points before completing a form,  
   
   
 Also... for the contact form there's no such of "compromising information". Its like an email acct that is open with my password.  
   
 I appreciate those that fill out my form, instead of sending emails back and forth for 3 -4 days to get some information.  
 I'm a professional... I provide a service... and I like to be treated with respect.  
   
 Isn't that hard... after all this is about having fun  
 

It's also understandable why some are against it. I have had clients list the information they're comfortable with on the form and include in the special notes section that they will be willing to give any more needed information over email or phone. In my opinion, this is a perfectly acceptable course of action. It shows that you're respectful of my process, helps me stay organized, and gives me the basics about the person.

This actually reminds me of a great conversation I had with a provider friend that is based in Canada the other day. We have two different screening processes: one for when we are stateside (a bit more thorough) and one for when we are not simply due to the differences in the law. I make it very clear that if someone does not want to fill out the booking form, they may always email me the requested information. I personally believe, and some may not agree, if I am going to give someone the address to my incall and trust them with that, I can at least know where they work. Plus, if it is a "newbie" with no provider references, I need something to go off of to ensure our safety.

However, back to your original question which was concerning a provider that does not respond. It could be a multitude of things from the email landing in her junk/spam folder (which does happen from time to time - trust me) to her not wanting to see you. If you've emailed and given it 48 hours, send a follow up. If you do not receive a response within 24 hours after that, move on.  

That's my two cents but I am a bit new and haven't had issues with people filling out my form

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