... But just as you are free to use whatever verification process you wish, potential clients are free to decline to follow that process.  And then it's up to you to decide to move on to the next client, or to make an exception.  You need to do what makes you feel safe.  Potential clients will decide to agree to your verification process, or find someone else.  

As for asking for reviews, you can certainly do that.  But it's not a good idea to try to influence the reviews in any way, other than giving the reviewer a great experience to write about.

the section on ad posting.  It's ok to ask a client to write a review if you feel like he enjoyed your service.  Ask if he's a member first, not everyone is a TER member.

As the previous poster said, you can use any method to verify that your potential clients are safe to visit, including one or more of the verification sites.  There are many ways to verify clients, including asking for personal info.

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With my experience

TER for me has given me the info I ever needed to verify a Gent/Lady/Couple because these come directly from the Lady herself.

TER for me has always been THE go to when I want to confirm a Gent actually is an active member/poster/reviewer.

For the Gents & Ladies that have visited me & are members here, I ask if they wouldnt mind writing a review BUT I do not require it. If they do not feel comfortable reviewing me thats fine. If they decide that they want to write a review I only ask that certain intimate details be limited because what I am sharing with one Gentleman or Lady will vary with another. You can always email or text if you ever feel like you have more questions.

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