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keystonekid 114 Reviews 267 reads
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didn't require reference(s). This method is tried and true for both the payer and the payee.

ParkerSouth959 reads

Hi Ladies,  

Just wanted to see if you had any tips and tricks for effective client screening on TER and P411. I noticed you can search by Reviewer on TER and get a feel for a client through that info stream but what about p411?  

Has anyone tried VerifyHim? Anyone use other apps or sites for screening? Thank you in advance. :)

Happy hobbying,  
Park

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perfectstorm383 reads

Screening using TER can include reading a client's reviews, and looking at his whitelists, perhaps contacting some providers that he has reviewed or who have whitelisted him. You can also PM the client through TER to make sure it is not someone else using his/her handle. Some providers even use a TER member's board posts as a form of screening.

On p411, you can look at a client's plays, and some providers will contact the providers who gave the okays.

Many providers do use verifyhim and other similar sites. There are lots of other screening methods. Some of them are best not shared on public boards. Perhaps some ladies will share with you by PM.  
Good luck.

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perfectstorm209 reads

She would need VIP to read the juicy details and see the ratings a client gave to other providers. However with just the Limited Provider VIP she can use the PM system. Also I believe Limited Provider VIP allows them to see whitelists. (I may be wrong on that. Maybe a provider with the Limited VIP can help us out here and let us know.)

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ParkerSouth244 reads

Yup, I bought VIP membership first thing even before I started really using TER. This lets me access juicy details, PM and all the goodies. I just got my first review, my TER ID# and I'm almost full fledged provider- just need 2 more reviews to access the Providers only board. Until then, I'm learning so much. You are all so kind and helpful :)

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She would need VIP to read the juicy details and see the ratings a client gave to other providers. However with just the Limited Provider VIP she can use the PM system. Also I believe Limited Provider VIP allows them to see whitelists. (I may be wrong on that. Maybe a provider with the Limited VIP can help us out here and let us know.)

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Jenna_Sunshine259 reads

I have people get frustrated with me because I do require references from an established provider.  I need to be able to see the providers TER and she needs reviews to count as a legitimate reference. I know someone that owns a local agency that will verify newbies and I usually refer them to him.  He always tells me I'm missing out but I just feel much safer when I get the greenlight from someone else who has actually met the potential date.

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xyz23232 reads

...convince you to compromise on what you need to feel safe and assured about the client you are screening

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GaGambler256 reads

I tell the ladies to never compromise on their screening. If this is what you need to feel safe, then by all means that's what you need to get from each and every new client.

and I would say most providers need references from another established provider, of course verification services make this process a lot easier. Personally I am lazy and I don't "jump through hoops" to see any provider, but I do have a few dozen okays on P 411 and ladies are more than welcome to verify my references to their hearts content, and I encourage them to do so if that's what makes them comfortable.  

Agencies quite often have different standards where it comes to screening, but keep in mind your "friend" is not going to end up naked alone with someone that outweighs him by a hundred pounds. You keep doing what you are doing, it seems to be working just fine for you.

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Jenna_Sunshine286 reads

Good points! Thank you!!

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keystonekid268 reads

didn't require reference(s). This method is tried and true for both the payer and the payee.

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