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There are big differences between a white list and P411 OK.
NoYellowEnvelope 385 reads
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A white list can be given to any TER member (non-provider) at any time. The recipient doesn't even need to request it.  There's been cases of white lists being given to people who never saw that provider.  

P411 OKs, however, must be requested.  And as part of the request, you need to give details on the date of the session and other details to help the provider remember you.  

Maybe these differences are why some providers don't give white lists much value for screening, while they may more readily accept P411 OKs, based on what I've seen in earlier threads on this subject.

Destiny Love645 reads

Can someone please explain what the whitelist is.

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keystonekid407 reads

spent time with you asks, you can give him a white list reference. Since I am not a provider, I don't know the mechanics of how to do this on this site. Maybe a provider will give you the methodology you need.

Also, see 3 threads down this page.

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Destiny Love323 reads

thank you  

Posted By: keystonekid
spent time with you asks, you can give him a white list reference. Since I am not a provider, I don't know the mechanics of how to do this on this site. Maybe a provider will give you the methodology you need.

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NoYellowEnvelope386 reads

A white list can be given to any TER member (non-provider) at any time. The recipient doesn't even need to request it.  There's been cases of white lists being given to people who never saw that provider.  

P411 OKs, however, must be requested.  And as part of the request, you need to give details on the date of the session and other details to help the provider remember you.  

Maybe these differences are why some providers don't give white lists much value for screening, while they may more readily accept P411 OKs, based on what I've seen in earlier threads on this subject.

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impposter267 reads

Nobody asked, but Date-Check has a "We Met" system. From my end, I need to submit a "We Met" request to a hostess with some specific information about the meeting. She then confirms that "We Met" (although not every hostess follows up reliably).  

Posted By: NoYellowEnvelope
A white list can be given to any TER member (non-provider) at any time. The recipient doesn't even need to request it.  There's been cases of white lists being given to people who never saw that provider.    
   
 P411 OKs, however, must be requested.  And as part of the request, you need to give details on the date of the session and other details to help the provider remember you.    
   
 Maybe these differences are why some providers don't give white lists much value for screening, while they may more readily accept P411 OKs, based on what I've seen in earlier threads on this subject.
Meet the We Mets

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JakeFromStateFarm251 reads

One of my old White Lists is from someone I never saw.

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perfectstorm291 reads

For whitelists. This should answer all your questions.

Related Link: Whitelist FAQ

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