if she doesn't knock it off on the Newb board then. Her bad advice/WRONG advice and her "all hookers trying to knock the completion out BS" is ridiculous and ignorant.
Pretty straight forward question. How do you get white listed? How can you tell if you're white listed? Once white listed, do you have to do anything to keep that standing? Anything else not obvious that a not so frequent hobbyist might not know or think to ask? Thanks!
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...something a provider gives a client similar but not the same as a P411 OK. Please read the post by Fearghas and check out the link he posted. Please stop giving incorrect information.
First you said,"Escorts get a special privilege being on whitelist." That is wrong. Escorts on TER don't get a privilege being on the white list because on TER escorts are not on the white list. It's the hobbyist that is white listed by the provider. The OP is asking about the white listing on TER
Then you said, "Pick one off whitelist mister." That is wrong. A hobbyists on TER doesn't pick a provider off of a white list because the white list is something a provider gives a hobbyist.
The OP wants to know about being "White Listed" by a provider on TER.
You didn't give him an answer to his question and you gave incorrect information about the White List and how it works on TER.
You need to stop
Then you said, "Pick one off whitelist mister." That is wrong. A hobbyists on TER doesn't pick a provider off of a white list because the white list is something a provider gives a hobbyist.
The OP wants to know about being "White Listed" by a provider on TER.
You didn't give him an answer to his question and you gave incorrect information about the White List and how it works on TER.
You need to stop.
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Or are you just a troll?
on the newbie board and confusing the newbies.
The link answers about any questions. If you run across a provider who is on here but doesn't know how to give a whitelist, give her this link.
As far as what you do to maintain the whitelisting, a provider can withdrawa it at any time, so I guess just don't piss her off?
Also, some ladies want them to be "fresh", some say three months, some six, some a year. Once a lady gives you a listing, she can refresh it by canceling it, and then giving a new one. Asking her to do so if you haven't actually seen her again recently is a bit of an ethical gray area I never thought about till just now.
Also be aware some ladies say the whitelists are meaningless to them as references.
Anyway, I think the faq will give you all you need.
You can ask a provider you have seen and is also a TER member to put you a white list recommendation for you. Sometimes providers just white list a client without them asking.
To see if you have white lists, go to My TER, then "other", then my references.
Once white listed, always white listed as far as i can tell.
That's about the size of it
Do pay attention to xyz, feargas, (and definitely check out the link he provided) and mrfisher. The one part wher mrfisher was slightly incorrect was the "once whitelisted, always whitelisted" comment. If a provider retired and delists, or she is delisted for cause, then your whitelist from her will disappear. Also A provider can detract a whitelist she gave someone. This is explained in the link from feargas.
She's not only wrong but opinionated about it and she's a danger to Newbies.
boards (with the exception of the private boards of course). Fancy hasn't committed any bannable offense (yet) so they are not going to ban her from the site. For now I just have to count on myself and my highly unpaid assistants to correct her, RAP her really bad posts, and keep steering the newbies in the right direction.
Maybe not but I believe they can take a lesser step by placing her on suspension. I read this board a lot and have you and others to thank for the great info. I just feel that fancy brings the board down. Seems like an appropriate response by ter would be to tell her to stop and if she continues, some kind of punitive measure should take place. The sooner the better.
There are two very easy fixes. One of course is to give her a posting "time out" something that is done with regularity with troublesome posters that refuse to "get with the program" personally, I am all for that solution.
The other is to simply moderate her, and have an actual person read each and every one of her posts and simply disallow all of her inappropriate posts, just like we did in the old days.
Of course I haven't had the power to do anything except stomp my feet and hold my breath for many years now where it comes to how the discussion boards are run. I can simply conclude that admin doesn't take issue with her posts for some unknown reason.
The other is to simply moderate her, and have an actual person read each and every one of her posts and simply disallow all of her inappropriate posts, just like we did in the old days.
Of course I haven't had the power to do anything except stomp my feet and hold my breath for many years now where it comes to how the discussion boards are run. I can simply conclude that admin doesn't take issue with her posts for some unknown reason.
First you think xyz23 hates your guts? LMAO. Xyz is one of the nicest most helpful posters on this board, and also one of the most knowledgable posters when it comes to TER info. He actually was very patient on trying to correct you, and you think he hates you and is lying. Get a grip lady.
Secondly, posting on TER is not a "right." It is a privilege. It is a privilege that TER has a "right" to take away, and I for one would be happy if they exercise that right.
Of course all of this went right over your head.
if she doesn't knock it off on the Newb board then. Her bad advice/WRONG advice and her "all hookers trying to knock the completion out BS" is ridiculous and ignorant.
Some people find her posts entertaining or interesting or bearable on the other boards, but on Newbie she is dangerous.
When someone is placed under Moderation, is it across all boards and all posts or can it be limited to just the Newbie board? (Or any board, as needed: Legal Board to stop bad legal advice, and so on.)
I really wish Fancy would learn to use EOM properly. MANY of is are annoyed by the wasted (bandwidth and time) clicks. It would reduce her "annoying" level by a factor of 10.
Can TER upgrade p'storm to a full blown Mod with authority to screen her submissions before posting them to the public board
As far as I know, there is no way to moderate a person, "just on one board" the system allows either moderated or unmoderated and it's system wide, not board specific.
There are a LOT of things I wish Fancy would learn to do, using the Eom isn't even top ten for me, as I find her annoying in so many other ways.
As for PS becoming a full blown mod, while I doubt Admin would consider it, THAT is something that actually could be done. If PS were an actual mod, even on this board only, all of her posts as long as she was moderated would go into a queue that PS would see, along with the other posters on this board that were moderated, he would then either approve or disapprove her posts along with all the other posts made by moderated posters and it's unlikely that most of her more offensive posts would ever see the light of day.
Personally, I am all for it, but highly skeptical it will ever happen.
I'm pretty sure that PS would demand a hefty increase in his compensation package.
Maybe TERAdmin can orchestrate a barter where PS get's a 2 hour with Fancy? Who wouldn't want that?
There are a LOT of things I wish Fancy would learn to do, using the Eom isn't even top ten for me, as I find her annoying in so many other ways.
As for PS becoming a full blown mod, while I doubt Admin would consider it, THAT is something that actually could be done. If PS were an actual mod, even on this board only, all of her posts as long as she was moderated would go into a queue that PS would see, along with the other posters on this board that were moderated, he would then either approve or disapprove her posts along with all the other posts made by moderated posters and it's unlikely that most of her more offensive posts would ever see the light of day.
Personally, I am all for it, but highly skeptical it will ever happen.
the vast majority of the time there is no text in the body of the message. she never uses (eom) at the end of the subject to indicate "end of message"
i stopped reading all her posts except the subject line and just move on to the next one. if i miss an occasional full message then so be it.
i stopped reading all her posts except the subject line and just move on to the next one. if i miss an occasional full message then so be it.
of course you have the right to participate. i never said you shouldn't. but i have right to choose which posts to read and which to skip.
my main point is rather than complain about a fellow member of the ter community, i choose to ignore and move on. no offense to you or anyone else.
i stopped reading all her posts except the subject line and just move on to the next one. if i miss an occasional full message then so be it.
You want to give me that much power? It might go to my head! 
I seriously doubt TER would do that anyway. They had their reasons for eliminating the volunteer moderators back in 2012.
I'm not sure what those reasons were, but I'm sure they had them
I agree with GaG that at a minimum she should be moderated, then at least somebody from TER staff would have to read all her posts before posting and then maybe half her posts will never see the light of day. I also agree with GaG in that her lack of 'eom' is hardly her most annoying trait.
TER puts people on posting time-outs all the time. Sometimes for a week, sometimes longer (1 month, 3 months, etc.)
like I said earlier, they won't ban her because she hasn't committed a bannable offense, but they can certainly put her on time-out, and I sure wouldn't miss her. Problem is that she actually has a legion of fans. I don't get it but the last time she stopped posting for a few days, people were worried about her.
Some providers do not accept whitelist okays. I would think it is the same as getting a reference check directly from the wl ok provider. Any ideas why some ladies do not accept this? Is there some loophole, etc that makes wl less reliable? I know of one where you can give someone else's handle but this can be addressed by requiring a pm to the lady.
If your whitelist is from years ago there is no way for us to know that you are still the great person that deserved the whitelist in the first place.
Not every whitelist is from a provider with a long standing reputation. Some are fake and her only whitelist is from the client who's only review is of her...
Some clients like to give whitelists and TER screen names in place of verifiable info.
I've heard of more than one man using the same TER handle and even logging on to that account to message the provider. So even though we know your screen name we don't know who you are.
If anything happens to us we are not likely going to be able to get your real name, home address and work info from TER....
...I mentioned a couple in my replies to Salma a couple of threads below. Mostly (my guess) it's for the reason Ginger stated in her reply on that thread. TER doesn't verify like P411 does so on P411 the Ok by a provider is a double vouch for the client. It's important to note here that there are P411 providers that still want references and other information beyond P411 OK's and P411 membership.
My experience has been my White List is sufficient. My references are the ladies who have White Listed me. I keep them up to date as that is something nearly every provider that speaks on this topic says, It's important for references which would include White List to be recent.
and some women for reasons unknown Whitelist guys they have never even met.
I had three bogus whitelists removed from my "profile" a year or two ago only to find another one has been added. I have no idea why women I have never met continue to Whitelist me, but it keeps happening.
If I were a provider, I doubt I would put much stock in a TER Whitelist either.
P411 okays OTOH are VERY important. I have dozens of okays on P 411 and every single one of them are legit.
an tell you from my experience that Providers have always accepted my whitelist as sufficient verification. It's why I send a PM to them in addition to an E-mail when requesting an appointment from a new lady. I want them to see my whitelist for comfort.
As I use my whitelist/review credentials as my sole method of screening, I can safely say that I haven't been asked to provide an additional reference. Now of course the ladies I am contacting are well reviewed and obviously thoroughly screen. But they either accept the sheer number of my whitelists as an indication that I am okay to see, or they look down my list and see a particular provider that they know and trust has whitelisted me. Or, they simply may contact a few ladies at the top of my list on their own.
So while many hobbyists and providers may say that a whitelist is not a sufficient method of screening (I am not a member of any verification sites), here is one hobbyist who disagrees and considers an up to date whitelist worth its weight in gold. I have never had an issue with a lady not accepting my whitelist recommendations.
Like "sheets" I can't remember being turned by a provider cause didn't accept my TER white list refs.
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Thanks to all the folks who commented on this. Some questions on Ginger's protocol.
Which 1-2 whitelists do you contact? How do you contact them (some ladies prefer email for e.g.)? What if you don't hear back in a timely manner? What is considered timely? I recently ran into a problem where a lady ter pm'ed a couple of my whitelists and claimed to have never heard back. What is the link to the provider blacklist? Can it be accessed by hobbyists?
IF A GENT tells me "Hey, Ginger, I wanna meet and I am whitelisted on TER." I do the following:
1. Look up his reviews and whitelists (as outlined by Xyz23 above)
2. Ask the gent to PM me on TER (because they could actually just claim to be that guy and not be him)
3. Contact 1-2 of his whitelists and make sure all is still well
4. Check him on provider blacklist