Maybe it was the first time jitters, but I wasn't able to relax 100% and just go with the flow. I'd be up for trying it again and see if I can let go a little more next time. I'm on board for the 1,2,or 3 girls at a time scenario. Even better, I'd be up for a lady friend escorting me from room to room where another lady or 2 were waiting for us to join in.