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mrfisher 108 Reviews 473 reads
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I would go to conventions either in Vegas or Orlando, and take along a gal I knew, or see a gal I already knew who lived at or near the place.  Usually for 3 to 4 nights.

They would have some down time during the day during which they could perform other business if they like (Not in my room, obviously.) and we'd get in 3-4 rounds a day and dine and do some touristing after my convention business was over for the day.

I seem to recall paying in the neighborhood of $1,500/day plus airfare, meals, etc.  This was about 15 years or so ago.

They were good times, fer sure

I would go to conventions either in Vegas or Orlando, and take along a gal I knew, or see a gal I already knew who lived at or near the place.  Usually for 3 to 4 nights.

They would have some down time during the day during which they could perform other business if they like (Not in my room, obviously.) and we'd get in 3-4 rounds a day and dine and do some touristing after my convention business was over for the day.

I seem to recall paying in the neighborhood of $1,500/day plus airfare, meals, etc.  This was about 15 years or so ago.

They were good times, fer sure

but  I wonder if they'd entertain a non-sexual arrangement.

NoYellowEnvelope300 reads

But are you saying you want escorting with no sex at a lower rate?  Keep in mind there's an opportunity cost for the provider's time.  If you're looking for a lower-than normal rate and there's no such rate published, you could ask her about it  but don't be surprised if she declines.

Time is money, and some gals love the sex anyways

The terms always vary.  From how many times they've seen you, to how good you are to them (not just financially), to where you're taking them and if you give them plenty of "alone time" which everyone needs. If you have some specific thoughts or questions feel free to pm me. Good luck

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...with them first.

The terms vary with how well you know the provider.  I've been seeing one provider for several years - when we go on trips, she charges me a daily rate that other guys pay for two hours.  On the last trip, she paid over $1,000. for our expenses herself.  It took a lot of arm-twisting by me to let me reimburse her.

And sex or no sex, travelling with a client is one time when providers actually do charge for their time.  I don't think there would be a discount for no sex, unless perhaps you're taking her to some place that's on her bucket list of places to go.

Don't do an overnight unless you've done at least an extended 3-4 hour dinner date, and don't do the latter until you've done a 1-2 hour date.

We need to build on these things to ensure success

Mr. Fisher, if you were to write an article on the subject what are the five most important points that are critical to compatibility? How would you determine that between two people and how critical is that to a harmonious relationship whether it be platonic, romantic or commercially romantic as in the case of this?  These are questions that should be ask by both parties before considering a vacation or an extended time period together.  

Posted By: mrfisher
Don't do an overnight unless you've done at least an extended 3-4 hour dinner date, and don't do the latter until you've done a 1-2 hour date.  
   
 We need to build on these things to ensure success.  
   
 

GaGambler350 reads

I know this is the newbie board where we are supposed to be nice, but PLEASE just STFU already.

Your asinine posts masquerading as an actual question aren't helpful to anybody, and they are not only counterproductive but quite annoying as well. So PLEASE, just STFU already and confine your inanity to the GD board where such things are tolerated.

Gambler just asking for some general parameters that one should look for when determining a certain criteria for compatibility. Something that is critical when determining whether or not to go on a long term engagement with a woman. The more information you have the better decisions one would make with respect to psychological makeup, expectations and the unique dynamic of give and take during the extended engagement between both parties.  That is why I asked Mr. Fisher, to expand upon his reply further so one would have a base to extrapolate what constitutes compatibility.

Posted By: GaGambler
I know this is the newbie board where we are supposed to be nice, but PLEASE just STFU already.  
   
 Your asinine posts masquerading as an actual question aren't helpful to anybody, and they are not only counterproductive but quite annoying as well. So PLEASE, just STFU already and confine your inanity to the GD board where such things are tolerated.

and it wouldn't be an article, it would be a weighty tome.

Suffice it to say, the only way to know for sure, is to start off slow and see how it goes.  That's what has worked for me

Thank you!
Yes we are supposed to be nice on the newbie board, but there are exceptions to every rule. Fancy and dupy are definitely exceptions here! If ripmany starts posting here, he is another exception and I give anyone permission to rip him!

As to dupy, yes his asinine questions are annoying enough on the other boards but they definitely do not belong here. By the way, do you ever recall anyone answering one of his posts? What is that quote about doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results? :)

I regularly go straight to overnights or travel.  Never had an issue at all.  On my side or theirs

so far I've gone to Ireland, Tokyo and traveled extensively within the US with clients and it's always been a great experience for everyone involved.  

It's always best to check and see if she has travel rates/packages available; if so, use those as the starting point for the conversation.  Some girls will adjust their rates if they know you and enjoy your company (and/or you're taking them somewhere they want to go) but it's always best to assume that you'll be paying their full listed rate unless they tell you otherwise.  I also consider it okay to issue an invitation along the lines of "Hey, I'd like to take you to X.  Your rate looks like it'd work out to Y for the trip, but I can only afford Z.  Is there a way we can make this work for us both?" because then she has the ability to make an informed decision.  

Also, totally agree with the others who say that you should start with a date or two (and I'd recommend an overnight) before committing to travel, just to make sure there's no weird quirks that'll drive you bonkers over a multi-day endeavour. Discussing how much free time she'll get - because we're human and need some solo time, no matter how much we like you - is also a very considerate thing to do.

i was originally looking for someone who offers this option on her site but  i think  I will just ask my "ATF"

 

Posted By: earthshined
if so what were the terms?

Yes. I have done it a few times with ladies that I have seen on multiple occasions. This is one of the best and intimate things you can do in the hobby, but you MUST make sure it's someone that you like and are very compatible with since you will be sharing a bed, meals and travel.  

You must really enjoy their company and I do not recommend you doing this with someone you don't know very well or worse; have never met before because that is a recipe for disaster. Start slow and build up. Maybe a dinner out together one night or an overnight another time to start off with.  

Secondly, the financials need to be worked out well in advance so that there are no hidden surprises. I would also think the lady would give you a "special" rate for this service so ask especially if she likes you and enjoys your company.  

That's how I do it and I recommend you follow suit. Good Luck

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