After reading all the posts below about no sex with wives, catholic guilt, single and only sex with providers, etc I'm convinced that I'm normal and all the rest of you guys are screwed up. LOL! I'm up in years with a comparably aged wife who is no longer interested in sex (age & health) while I'm still horny.
I see a provider about twice a month, alternating between my ATF and a few other Ladies. My hobbying does not impact on my loving relationship with my wife, nor on our economic life style, so nobody gets hurt. I've developed friendships with the Ladies I see, but do not delude myself into thinking that it's anything more than that.
Overall I consider my hobbying to be a healthy way to spend my time and money in the few active and productive years I have left. No question here, just a statement that everything is cool with me. Good Hobbying everyone.
-- Modified on 10/11/2005 3:52:45 PM
While I'd think the Missus may have a difference of opinion on the nobody getting hurt aspect, it sounds like you're every bit as normal as I am. Take pride or console yourself with that...
We'll catch up to you in wisdom if we live that long!