See the thread above if ya wanna know what the big deal is. I am seeing more and more massage and Diy girls but perhaps its just because the economy is bad so more girls are getting into the business at various ends. It could be that they think they wont get busted by le. Its your money do what ya want with it. I do think it belongs in a different category on Ter with a different rating system as others have already pointed out. That way those of us who are not interested will be able to filter it out of our searches.
I have in the past been in agreement, to a degree with some attitudes about massage DIY or HJ finish. I would have said, not for me. Today I had one of those encounters that has changed my perspective. I don't want to turn this into a shill for the provider. However I would like to say I have recently experienced several massage providers and have come away seeing the good, bad, and incredible. Most likely I will review the provider she really hit the sweet spot for me, and I was not expecting such a great expirance with a massage.
Some recent threads in general may have been a bit intolerant, but I am finding, for myself there are opinions and views I hold that could be adjusted. I had a hoot of a time today when I was least expecting it, let's go out and find that incredible provider that makes our day and try to make their day while we are at it.
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Glad you enjoyed It. I find it disturbing that more providers are going this way. I would rather DIY alone and keep my cash. I hope this trend doesn't take over the hobby as lot of guys are paying top dollar to do this and its not good for us guys who want more.
Not to belie your point, however I can tell you I have received less from a full service provider for more $ when you account for the body to body contact and a state of bliss apron departure and time reliving a great encounter. As a hobbiest who PMed me said, it has a lot to do with the provider and how you connect. At a younger age I may have paid a great deal more for a dinner date and gone away ecstatic having an encounter with similar results. It is truly a state of mind.
There are still many massage providers that will handle the junk for you. The DIY providers and/or hobbiest that use frequent them aren't ruining anything. Most DIY providers are pretty clear in their ad what they allow. I have said it before, some DIY providers are much, much more sensual that some of the junk handlers that rub your back for a few minutes, ask you to flip, and try to finish you off. I still say, to each there own.
What's the big deal????
See the thread above if ya wanna know what the big deal is. I am seeing more and more massage and Diy girls but perhaps its just because the economy is bad so more girls are getting into the business at various ends. It could be that they think they wont get busted by le. Its your money do what ya want with it. I do think it belongs in a different category on Ter with a different rating system as others have already pointed out. That way those of us who are not interested will be able to filter it out of our searches.
For example, if I see an ad in the escorts section of a website, I expect her to be a FS escort and if I find out when I get there that the listed/quoted price does not include FS then I would not be happy. Similarly, if a girl is a DIY gir, she should make it clear somehow that she does not offer HEs.
I also think it would be a good idea if TER split the reviews into different sections so that we can easily find reviews for the providers who offer the type of service in which we were interested. I remember in the past they didn't used to have the FS and erotic massage reviews intermingled.
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Separate categories would be a great idea. However, the tough part with that is - what I am hearing and experiencing is that some of the providers may provide different endings for clients they feel comfortable with.
I completely agree with ya. I've come away from many FS sessions feeling a lot less satisfied. However there are several MPs that are downright boring too. I've noticed that some of the really good ones don't even advertise now. They're fully booked 2-3 weeks out.
FS, HE or DIY, It's really 99% attitude on the part of the provider. If they love it, and they connect with ya, then it's just awesome. There's no way to find that out without trying.
Well said Geronimo. There are good and not so good apples in each category and you
never know how you're gonna connect until you try. Whatever the sevice category is,
if you don't like it, don't go back. Patronize the ones you enjoy.