Normally I'm a straight sex kinda guy, but at some point I may want to explore, and there is one very specific fetish that gets me going. I've never seen it listed on any provider's website, but it's not a difficult one and doesn't put much of a burden on the lady. All she has to do is talk dirty, basically, but in a specific way.
My question is, when do you bring this up? Can you allude to it vaguely pre-meeting? Just so that she knows to expect something? I've had a provider ask me if she should bring anything special with her, so I know fetish stuff is allowed to come up in emails, at least in some form. I'm on firmer ground waiting to bring it up in the room, I know. In that case do I pick the girls most open to fetishes, even if they don't list what interests me? Are straighter girls put off by fetish inquiries?
I'd be most comfortable bringing something like this up with one of my 'regular' girls. I would never try to bring a fetish up on a first meeting, simply because they can be kinda embarrassing!
That said, one of my regulars specializes in fetishes - as long as she isn't the one being tied up and incapacitated, she is completely fascinated by the "weird" things that turn people on. I'm actually a really boring client for her, since I stick to 'main menu' kinda stuff! But the stories she tells me...wow! Still I don't judge, and neither does she....
Some girls advertise "fetish friendly" and they don't mean it...or they mean something "pedestrian" like BBBJCIM.
So my advice is to see a few girls that advertise fetish friendly, and talk to them during or after your sessions. If you are not comfortable sharing your fetish, you can always ask them to share a 'crazy' story. Just be prepared to find out your own fetish is kinda tame, by comparison! :-
Yeah, I already know mine is relatively tame. Like I said, it's only talk. My suspicion is it's weird for normal girls and not weird enough for fetish girls.
Since I am new I don't have a regular. Waiting for a second or third session sounds smart. I don't even know if I want to bring it up. Like I said, I'm mostly a straight sex guy. It's nice to know the procedure just in case.
as there's no law against talking dirty to someone that wants to hear it.
However, I think that only a small number of gals will be able to satisfy this request.
You are talking about acting, and acting well is not an easy thing to do, especially if one is not predisposed to such a thing.
I have come across only a few gals who were truly talented in this, and enjoyed their performance no end.
I wish you luck in finding same
Posted By: darmody
Normally I'm a straight sex kinda guy, but at some point I may want to explore, and there is one very specific fetish that gets me going. I've never seen it listed on any provider's website, but it's not a difficult one and doesn't put much of a burden on the lady. All she has to do is talk dirty, basically, but in a specific way.
My question is, when do you bring this up? Can you allude to it vaguely pre-meeting? Just so that she knows to expect something? I've had a provider ask me if she should bring anything special with her, so I know fetish stuff is allowed to come up in emails, at least in some form. I'm on firmer ground waiting to bring it up in the room, I know. In that case do I pick the girls most open to fetishes, even if they don't list what interests me? Are straighter girls put off by fetish inquiries?
They specifically mention whether they are into "dirty talking." It is mentioned under the "other details" section at the bottom of their profile.
You don't need to be a member to see that info.
of course it doesn't mean they wouldn't be open to your request if not listed, as some girls leave that section blank totally.
Thanks, I never noticed the "dirty talker" category before. I don't know if this means they'll be into what I want, but it's a start.
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It is only available if the provider filled that section in, and only available if the provider's profile is available. Many profiles are not available at all without logging in.
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I can't imagine why a provider wouldn't want to talk to earn bucks. I agree she might not win an Oscar, but why should she care about that?
Hey there!
as a person who specializes in combining GFE with fetish/bdsm play, let me tell you that subjectiveness is everything when it comes to dirty talk!
Like I, for one, find it much hotter and more enjoyable to talk about really taboo and dirty things, and am really not into the more pedestrian of dirty talks (though of course, I'll do both with wild abandon).
If your subject matter verges on the more fetishistic (a certain role-play talk, race play, breeding/impregnation, age play, etc), I'd definitely get in touch with a provider who offers more intense fetish experiences. If your dirty talk is more about describing the act thats already happening, you should be okay with a PSE or GFE provider.
Of course, discussing things beforehand is the easiest way to determine if a provider will be able to accommodate your dirty-talk wants. I actually prefer when folks let me know ahead of time that they're looking for a dirty talk experience. it allows me to prepare a bit and get into it more.
Good luck to you!
Posted By: MissErinBlack
Hey there!
as a person who specializes in combining GFE with fetish/bdsm play, let me tell you that subjectiveness is everything when it comes to dirty talk!
Like I, for one, find it much hotter and more enjoyable to talk about really taboo and dirty things, and am really not into the more pedestrian of dirty talks (though of course, I'll do both with wild abandon).
If your subject matter verges on the more fetishistic (a certain role-play talk, race play, breeding/impregnation, age play, etc), I'd definitely get in touch with a provider who offers more intense fetish experiences. If your dirty talk is more about describing the act thats already happening, you should be okay with a PSE or GFE provider.
Of course, discussing things beforehand is the easiest way to determine if a provider will be able to accommodate your dirty-talk wants. I actually prefer when folks let me know ahead of time that they're looking for a dirty talk experience. it allows me to prepare a bit and get into it more.
Good luck to you!
