Posted By: superfan1979
My question for the ladies is would you prefer a heads-up about his physical "disabilities" during the appointment process or is that not necessary? He has a real fear of either being turned away or having a less than enjoyable experience because the provider is turned off by his hand and leg. Thanks in advance for your responses.
I like to know as much as possible about my new friends prior to meeting. One way to do it, if he joins P411, is for him to mention that in his profile. Then when he contacts providers there, he can ask them to read his profile.
I've had guys do this when they want to discreetly tell me they're bringing a pump, have a colostomy bag, or anything that he might be hesitant to tell me directly. These things can be uncomfortable all the way around, so when they write, "look at my profile and if you're not interested, then just don't reply" it takes the pressure off of us too.
Honestly, I think the only problem he might likely have is ladies going overboard with the nicey-nice routine, to reassure him that they don't mind. And there's definitely worse things than that! :-
While it's not likely to get him rejected, it's one of those things that most ladies want to be told about ahead of time, simply so they're not taken by surprise.
and Debra. I have disability friendly on my P411 profile and I've never not had a person who has disabilities let me know ahead of time. To me it better helps me make sure I can give someone my best when we meet. Knowledge is power...
Steph xoxo
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Posted By: Tobi Telford
While it's not likely to get him rejected, it's one of those things that most ladies want to be told about ahead of time, simply so they're not taken by surprise.
Good advice escorts want to be told about it ahead of time.No reason to rejected.No escorts going to turn away business.
Thanks ladies I will show him your responses. I figured as much but it should make him feel better coming from you
I agree with the providers who answered. We humans have this thing were we react to suprises in unexpected ways. So I'd hate to make anyone uncomfortable or nervous. I try to be as detailed as possible in stating my physical nature, I'd love my clients to be as specific as possible to avoid any surprised reactions is all.
Sending love,
xoElizabeth
and I can't imagine many providers would turn him away. Just tell him to mention it so the provider is prepared and doesn't act surprised. A very close friend of mine lost his leg right below the knee and he still get's down and dirty.. Met a woman, got married, having the 2nd kid. Your friend will be ok! 
I am also an amputee. I had the same fears about seeing a provider because of it. I never told them about it. When they show up for the session they had no problem with it. We had a great session. I even made a few friends and a lot of repeat with a few ladies.
I would tell him not to worry about most ladies are professional and they will do their best to make sure he enjoys his time with them.
That way the lady is prepared as she may have special ways to accommodate him
...and would probably not deter any provider who's a decent human being and good at her job.
I personally have no restrictions on physical limitations from my clients, but because of where my incall is located, it helps a lot to know if they have physical limitations that make stairs difficult or impossible.
Reactions to missing limbs/prosthetics are eliminated when a provider is aware of them. Reactions are bound to happen when a provider isn't mad aware beforehand.
Good luck to your friend!
