Hi all,
I'm struggling with a review right now. I had an absolutely fantastic date the other day with a visiting woman. My quandary is she did stuff with me that hasn't appeared in any of her previous reviews, and I'm wondering whether to include it.
So, my question is, for the YMMV activities, gentlemen, do you include them, and ladies, do you prefer they be left out, with only the standard stuff being described, or do you not mind if they're written about?
Right now, I'm kind of inclined not to include them, so as to not raise expectations, but I'm just not entirely convinced that is the direction to take.
Any advice is welcome.
SDB
When I'm writing a review, that are not in a providers profile or discussed in other reviews.
I'm struggling with a review right now. I had an absolutely fantastic date the other day with a visiting woman. My quandary is she did stuff with me that hasn't appeared in any of her previous reviews, and I'm wondering whether to include it.
So, my question is, for the YMMV activities, gentlemen, do you include them, and ladies, do you prefer they be left out, with only the standard stuff being described, or do you not mind if they're written about?
Right now, I'm kind of inclined not to include them, so as to not raise expectations, but I'm just not entirely convinced that is the direction to take.
Any advice is welcome.
SDB
I would say that you can include them. You should qualify the with the YMMV tag. It is possible that either (if this was your first get together) she felt a particular connection with you and wanted to explore or she is just widening her horizons and testing the waters. Many ladies do and (all) should monitor and correct/update there profiles from the stand point rates, activities, etc... So if you include something that she doesn't want in her profile she hopefully will remove it. Two activities that seem to suffer from this sort of thing the most (I'm my experience) are Greek and CIM (swallow or spit). I have read many reviews were the profile says no but the review say yes (on one or both of these) and vice versa.
Also it's your review, post what your comfortable with (or ask her if she wants it included or exclude if your really worried about giving offense ).
T
... mainly because I experience things that the average hobbyist doesn't so they couldn't relate to it anyways. So I say omit it.
If it's not something listed as an option on her profile/website/P411, then I would probably omit it. I don't want to raise other clients' expectations, only to have them be disappointed. And I don't want to put a provider in the awkward position of explaining why she did X with me but won't do it with them. If you get a little extra, enjoy it. And by all means repeat with the lady. But it's generally not a good idea to broadcast it. Discretion is usually appreciated by both the ladies and the gentlemen here.
know what to expect ON A FIRST DATE. The next guy needs to know if her pictures are current, she safe to see (not LE). If you don't think an item is a general menu offering, I don't think you should put her in a spot by putting it in a review.
I had a FBSM gal who, after we got to know each other, offered extras... but a first date guy would not have gotten everything. (I couldn't review her because of where her ad was.)
The most important thing I look for is would you see her again!
But I'd say 99% of the time she'll say omit it.
When in doubt, leave it out.
You can always just say YMMV, and leave it at that. We all know what that means
I've done that a few times, when a provider did something with me that's not mentioned in her profile or reviews.
One example is, a provider I've seen many times has CBJ in her profile and all of her reviews. After she got to know me, she started doing BBBJs. She explained that she hates CIM and thus the CBJs. I didn't mention BBBJ in my review nor do I mention it if a monger asks me about her. I figure it's up to her as to whom to cover, or not. I assume I'm not the only client of hers that gets BBBJs, so there's probably several guys who are being discreet.
previous review, CIM for example, I do NOT include it in my review.
Same goes if she gives me extra time. A few years ago I had scheduled a date with a provider about a month ahead of time. When I confirmed our arrangement a week ahead, she replied, "I'm sorry but a family situation has come, could I possible meet with her the day before." Fortunately, I was able to make the adjustment in my calendar. For my willingness to change the day, she offered me 3 hours for the price of 2.
Not the OP's point, but for other newbies reading here ...
A Profile and other reviews might report some services being available. If you were denied, by all means, say so establishing it as a YMMV rather than a definite Yes. Example: "Even though her profile says CIM - spit and several reviewers report same, she said No but she did let me COB. I guess CIM is YMMV."
I'm struggling with a review right now. I had an absolutely fantastic date the other day with a visiting woman. My quandary is she did stuff with me that hasn't appeared in any of her previous reviews, and I'm wondering whether to include it.
So, my question is, for the YMMV activities, gentlemen, do you include them, and ladies, do you prefer they be left out, with only the standard stuff being described, or do you not mind if they're written about?
Right now, I'm kind of inclined not to include them, so as to not raise expectations, but I'm just not entirely convinced that is the direction to take.
As a client evaluating my options for the night, my preference would be to know everything that *might* be available. I won't really expect her to do all the stuff she allowed with you if her reviews are mixed (and might not even *want* to do what you did...you freak! 
But I'd like to know what might be possible in future visits.
Still out of respect to her, I would ask what she wants advertised as available, what she wants marked as YMMV, and what should be kept on the down low.