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Re: What the F* are you doing?
I know this is p4p and all and she's not really my girlfriend or nothing but I kinda let the flirting get to that level where I'm complimenting her more often. I guess I must have complimented something that she felt was a problem area for her (an area I honestly think is hott like belly and booty). She eventually took offense to it and we had a falling out after she basically told me she's just an escort and the only discussion I need to be having is to let her know when I'd like to make a date.
My question is is it considered bad form to compliment what I like and tell my date the reasons I enjoy her company in a flirtatious way?
Also..... pretty much all women have their insecurities about their bodies. So if any woman tells you she thinks she's too heavy: do NOT come back with "I like your belly!" or "Jiggly butts are hot!".... seriously, the only response that is ever OK is "you are beautiful and sexy" period. 
Trust me on that. 
I know this is p4p and all and she's not really my girlfriend or nothing but I kinda let the flirting get to that level where I'm complimenting her more often. I guess I must have complimented something that she felt was a problem area for her (an area I honestly think is hott like belly and booty). She eventually took offense to it and we had a falling out after she basically told me she's just an escort and the only discussion I need to be having is to let her know when I'd like to make a date.
My question is is it considered bad form to compliment what I like and tell my date the reasons I enjoy her company in a flirtatious way?
For some reason, I'm getting the feeling that you're talking about flirting that was taking place between dates. That can easily get taken as someone who's looking for a relationship outside of P4P. So I agree with her: keep it short & sweet, limiting your correspondence to when you're scheduling your next session.
Also..... pretty much all women have their insecurities about their bodies. So if any woman tells you she thinks she's too heavy: do NOT come back with "I like your belly!" or "Jiggly butts are hot!".... seriously, the only response that is ever OK is "you are beautiful and sexy" period.
Trust me on that.
Yes they were during the date not in between. I wanted to keep the sex consistent. I had been a regular to some other women where the first session was great, then the following sessions where underwhelming and never measured up to the first. So when I got with her I made it a point to verbalize the stuff that I liked.
Thanks for chiming in Debbie with the female POV.
It was kinda like she'd tell me a bit about a failed date she had recently and I'd tell her about an experience I'd had with someone else, then compliment her on top of that because she was way better than my failed dates. She kinda took offense to that for some reason.
I know this is p4p and all and she's not really my girlfriend or nothing but I kinda let the flirting get to that level where I'm complimenting her more often. I guess I must have complimented something that she felt was a problem area for her (an area I honestly think is hott like belly and booty). She eventually took offense to it and we had a falling out after she basically told me she's just an escort and the only discussion I need to be having is to let her know when I'd like to make a date.
My question is is it considered bad form to compliment what I like and tell my date the reasons I enjoy her company in a flirtatious way?
For some reason, I'm getting the feeling that you're talking about flirting that was taking place between dates. That can easily get taken as someone who's looking for a relationship outside of P4P. So I agree with her: keep it short & sweet, limiting your correspondence to when you're scheduling your next session.
Also..... pretty much all women have their insecurities about their bodies. So if any woman tells you she thinks she's too heavy: do NOT come back with "I like your belly!" or "Jiggly butts are hot!".... seriously, the only response that is ever OK is "you are beautiful and sexy" period.
Trust me on that. -- Modified on 7/21/2016 4:25:21 AM
Thanks for chiming in Debbie with the female POV.
It was kinda like she'd tell me a bit about a failed date she had recently and I'd tell her about an experience I'd had with someone else, then compliment her on top of that because she was way better than my failed dates. She kinda took offense to that for some reason.
I know this is p4p and all and she's not really my girlfriend or nothing but I kinda let the flirting get to that level where I'm complimenting her more often. I guess I must have complimented something that she felt was a problem area for her (an area I honestly think is hott like belly and booty). She eventually took offense to it and we had a falling out after she basically told me she's just an escort and the only discussion I need to be having is to let her know when I'd like to make a date.
My question is is it considered bad form to compliment what I like and tell my date the reasons I enjoy her company in a flirtatious way?
For some reason, I'm getting the feeling that you're talking about flirting that was taking place between dates. That can easily get taken as someone who's looking for a relationship outside of P4P. So I agree with her: keep it short & sweet, limiting your correspondence to when you're scheduling your next session.
Also..... pretty much all women have their insecurities about their bodies. So if any woman tells you she thinks she's too heavy: do NOT come back with "I like your belly!" or "Jiggly butts are hot!".... seriously, the only response that is ever OK is "you are beautiful and sexy" period.
Trust me on that.
Sometimes when a woman talks about a bad experience, she just wants to be heard, and understood, and felt for. Safest course in this circumstance is simply to commiserate with her. You tried to "fix" her bad date by relating a worse one of your own. I hate it when people try to one-up my story, there's a passable likelihood that she was at least annoyed at this point. Your Capital Crime, however, was your faint praise: you told her she was better than a really bad date.
Starting to see why she got offended?
Starting to see why she got offended?
Yes they were during the date not in between. I wanted to keep the sex consistent. I had been a regular to some other women where the first session was great, then the following sessions where underwhelming and never measured up to the first. So when I got with her I made it a point to verbalize the stuff that I liked.
Thanks for chiming in Debbie with the female POV.
It was kinda like she'd tell me a bit about a failed date she had recently and I'd tell her about an experience I'd had with someone else, then compliment her on top of that because she was way better than my failed dates. She kinda took offense to that for some reason.
I know this is p4p and all and she's not really my girlfriend or nothing but I kinda let the flirting get to that level where I'm complimenting her more often. I guess I must have complimented something that she felt was a problem area for her (an area I honestly think is hott like belly and booty). She eventually took offense to it and we had a falling out after she basically told me she's just an escort and the only discussion I need to be having is to let her know when I'd like to make a date.
My question is is it considered bad form to compliment what I like and tell my date the reasons I enjoy her company in a flirtatious way?
For some reason, I'm getting the feeling that you're talking about flirting that was taking place between dates. That can easily get taken as someone who's looking for a relationship outside of P4P. So I agree with her: keep it short & sweet, limiting your correspondence to when you're scheduling your next session.
Also..... pretty much all women have their insecurities about their bodies. So if any woman tells you she thinks she's too heavy: do NOT come back with "I like your belly!" or "Jiggly butts are hot!".... seriously, the only response that is ever OK is "you are beautiful and sexy" period.
Trust me on that.
-- Modified on 7/21/2016 4:25:21 AM
Thanks for chiming in Debbie with the female POV.
It was kinda like she'd tell me a bit about a failed date she had recently and I'd tell her about an experience I'd had with someone else, then compliment her on top of that because she was way better than my failed dates. She kinda took offense to that for some reason.
I know this is p4p and all and she's not really my girlfriend or nothing but I kinda let the flirting get to that level where I'm complimenting her more often. I guess I must have complimented something that she felt was a problem area for her (an area I honestly think is hott like belly and booty). She eventually took offense to it and we had a falling out after she basically told me she's just an escort and the only discussion I need to be having is to let her know when I'd like to make a date.
My question is is it considered bad form to compliment what I like and tell my date the reasons I enjoy her company in a flirtatious way?
For some reason, I'm getting the feeling that you're talking about flirting that was taking place between dates. That can easily get taken as someone who's looking for a relationship outside of P4P. So I agree with her: keep it short & sweet, limiting your correspondence to when you're scheduling your next session.
Also..... pretty much all women have their insecurities about their bodies. So if any woman tells you she thinks she's too heavy: do NOT come back with "I like your belly!" or "Jiggly butts are hot!".... seriously, the only response that is ever OK is "you are beautiful and sexy" period.
Trust me on that.
-- Modified on 7/21/2016 4:25:21 AM