Need a longer period of time between ejaculations than a week-happens to a lot of us as we get into our 60's....

Remember when we were 17 and couldn't last for 30 seconds? Now it's just the opposite problem. I had it happen to me with a nice girl who was willing to do about anything to get results.  

The problem for me was I was binging a little. I had seen a lady just the day before.

Now I make sure I completely abstain for a few days prior. Works every time, and helps significantly with the condom, too

if it was a sudden change in how you function.

But there are other things to look at such as nutrition and rest.

For example, do you drink at least a quart of water a day?  If not, you could be dehydrated.

Also, how is your Vitamin D level?  That's very important for good sexual function.

And potassium, also very necessary.  Eat a banana a day if you can.

Try these out for a few weeks but if the problems persist, see a doc.

I'm 61 and I started to feel a fade starting about 5 years ago, but going to a better nutrition regimen has really helped.

As soon as the thought enters our mind that this time is different, we seem to be having diffulty, I don't think I'm going to be able to keep it up, or cum.....whatever.....we're as good as done unless we can redirect our thinking. Expectations can be a bitch. If we can't clear the negative thoughts there most definitely won't be a happy ending. There may be other reasons/issues at work here but the mental aspect is huge. I was with a delightful lady recently who, after some fun foreplay, reached for the cover and said "you're really going to like this". I didn't have time to object. I thought I wasn't ready or hard enough. But I rolled with it. She then began thee slowest and most sensual CG grind I've ever enjoyed. I spent the first couple minutes thinking, well this ain't happening, but I surrendered to her and wiped my mind of any negative thoughts and expectations. And I had a most amazing climax. If you're going to "prepare" for an ejaculation in your next session, be prepared also to just let it happen and be in the moment. Easier said than done maybe. Good luck!

Its not uncommon to have difficulty with orgasm as we get older.  I know of men (and women) whose attitude is to just enjoy sex regardless of orgasm.  When it happens, great.  When it doesn't they still enjoy themselves.  So, attitude adjustment is one solution.  Orgasm doesn't have to be the point of sex.

However, get yourself checked out medically.  Sex hormones can be an issue.  Not just testosterone either.  Include estradiol, DHEA, SBHG, LH.

Thyroid can be an issue too.  Thyroid imbalance is sometimes implicated in both premature ejaculation and delayed or inability to orgasm.  Make sure you doc is not one of those that just check TSH.  That's dark ages.  They should be checking free T3, reverse T3, and the ratio of those two.

Was this an intercourse problem?  Frankly I've learned a ton about condoms...  and my reactions!  You need to slip a bit in the condom.  If it's dry or too tight or (interestingly) too well lubed...  you don't get enough friction because to have friction you need movement.  All the movement may be on the outside with her & the condom.  The type & fit of the condom is critical.  
I have not tried them yet but they say a female condom feels closet to nothing at all!  

If you were able to cum, you are not broke.  It's just about getting the friction where you need it to be.

Having difficulty achieving an orgasm happens. Did to me as well with a well know provider a couple of years ago (I was 59 at the time . In my case it was probably that we did not reallly "click".

So, I agree with a previous post to check the big head first. Take some time "off" and RELAX.....

Then, fantasize about a favorite lady or situation and try masturbating. In all likelihood (I hope), you will find out that the plumbing works fine...

Good luck

Thanks for this discussion, very good and helpful one.  I'm 67 in good physical shape, but have always had some difficulty getting and maintaining an erection.  I now use viagra which works like a charm, but have also noticed in recent years that reaching an orgasm take longer than it used to.  Most of my experience is limited to FBSM, sometimes with a prostrate massage, and I can still reach an orgasm, often which leaves me breathless afterwards.  It helps to have the right provider, obviously, but  I also normally go about two weeks before seeing someone (no masturbating or other sex between those two weeks). Often I have night erections which are very powerful and make me feel about eighteen again!  But, bottom line is we are different and we need to find an experience which works for us.

Both mentally and physically.  I'm over 60, had prostate surgery and know that I can't come more than once during a session.  I think I've also learned a couple of things:
--I reliably can come early in a session.  If I wait and play around a lot, my erection gets "tired"
--comment on the lube and friction inside the condom has me realize that being uncut is better than being cut at this age.  I have more sensitivity that can be tapped to get me over the top.
--been doing this for many years, and for a lot of it "been there, done that" applies. Im' over the unrequited desire for hot women, because of this hobby, I have had them.  Looking more for a connection  and mutual play now.  At least good acting.
--letting myself explore some personal mild fetishes.  Pacing myself, got to make the interest last, at least until I am prepared to finally give it up.