I just came across reviews of a provider I'd now really like to see. Excellent comments.
I checked out her website and she has her Contributions listed as: $500/1 hour, $1000 2 hours, $1500 3 hour cocktail special.
I like to spend as much time BCD with a lady as possible. I don't like sitting in a restaurant or bar, and I certainly don't like the idea of paying $500 an hour to do that. I'd rather pour some wine or champagne in the room, cuddle, and talk. Much more intimate.
Is it bad form to ask if the third hour must be in a public place? It seems like such a question could complicate the first contact,
When her standard rate is $500 per hour?
Do the math. $500/hour x 3 hours = $1500
The fact that her three hour rate is exactly triple her hour rate hardly makes it "special" of course, and I doubt cocktails are even offered or expected. Just be thankful it's not true "hooker math" where she offers a $500 hourly rate an $800 ninety minute rate and a $900 two hour rate. Yes, there really are hookers with rates like that.
In your case, it simply looks like this lady doesn't discount for longer sessions, trying to figure out her motivations is like trying to figure out women in general, a completely fruitless endeavor.
If she's a $1000/hr hooker, then $1500 for 3 hours is a half-price bargain! Its all relative.
It is special ... for her.
Do the math. $500/hour x 3 hours = $1500.
I checked out her website and she has her Contributions listed as: $500/1 hour, $1000 2 hours, $1500 3 hour cocktail special.
I like to spend as much time BCD with a lady as possible. I don't like sitting in a restaurant or bar, and I certainly don't like the idea of paying $500 an hour to do that. I'd rather pour some wine or champagne in the room, cuddle, and talk. Much more intimate.
Is it bad form to ask if the third hour must be in a public place? It seems like such a question could complicate the first contact,.
I offer a 3hr cocktail/private time package as well but the rate is lower than my regular 3hr rate taking into account the cost of drinks and the public time I have different options.
Cocktails can be done at the hotel bar/restaurant or privately upstairs you could order drinks via room service.
Or grab a bottle of wine or whatever you drink and have it available in the room that way you can still do the cocktail package but you are not uncomfortable with being in the public.
Have fun!
Given that the rate is not discounted from her standard $500/hr fare, I'd guess the title/name means little or nothing.
Ladies sometimes like to use different labeling like "adventure", "encounter", "interlude" and so forth rather than simply saying 1hr Rate, 2hr Rate, 3hr Rate.
It's all marketing.
That being said, though: ask her about it, not us. She might actually mean SHE will provide cocktails at her incall location. Or that she'll only do 3 Hour dates during traditional cocktail (early evening) hours.
You won't know until you ask. 
I mean, my 4hr package says "dinner date," but that doesn't always include dinner. I'd definitely ask her how much (if any) time must be spent in public. Most ladies who require that a certain percentage of time be spent outside of the room will specify so on their websites.
Ladies sometimes like to use different labeling like "adventure", "encounter", "interlude" and so forth rather than simply saying 1hr Rate, 2hr Rate, 3hr Rate.
It's all marketing.
That being said, though: ask her about it, not us. She might actually mean SHE will provide cocktails at her incall location. Or that she'll only do 3 Hour dates during traditional cocktail (early evening) hours.
You won't know until you ask.
I think girls do themselves a disservice by selling dinner dates in the manner that they do. Many girls say things like "2 hours must be outside the room" and other similar things.
Not blaming you Tobi as many are in your camp. But girls tell me most of their clients are married so any "out of the room" stuff is an instant non starter.
I would advise just simply list the rates one hour, two hour, 3, 4, overnights, etc and have a special section on the rates page re: "dinner dates."
That way the guys looking for them will find them but it won't wig out the married crew.
Just my 2 cents as I have had to give tons of advice to dudes who have found all of this bewildering.
Just saying some do, as I've seen on several ladies' websites things like "4hrs = $1800 (2hrs public time required)" or something to that effect. Personally I don't like public dates all that much so it's not something I require. My point was just that some chicks can't deal with being cooped up in a hotel room for longer than [insert time frame here], which is understandable. But if the OP was wondering about someone like me who doesn't have that sort of requirement listed, he might as well ask.
Not blaming you Tobi as many are in your camp. But girls tell me most of their clients are married so any "out of the room" stuff is an instant non starter.
I would advise just simply list the rates one hour, two hour, 3, 4, overnights, etc and have a special section on the rates page re: "dinner dates."
That way the guys looking for them will find them but it won't wig out the married crew.
Just my 2 cents as I have had to give tons of advice to dudes who have found all of this bewildering.
Sorry ... I had to ask.
It is funny!
So was my "Who died and made you Queen?" (QueenOfTheNewbieBoard, that is) supposed to be funny.
Keep on Queening on. Just don't try any of that "Let them eat cake" stuff with us unless you bring enough for everyone
It's "let them eat cock" around these parts. lol
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than screwing around in the bed.
After all, they have to get very dolled up, and being in public is no picnic. Also, their mental game has to be polished up.
I have to entertain business clients at dinner from time to time. It's no day at the beach - which I also despise, by the way
The other comments about personal preference of providers is spot on! Some enjoy the social time and you can figure it out from their websites. Others, as noted, see it as 'time is money' and price it accordingly. The advice we always give is that as best you can try to find someone compatible with what you are looking for. Those make the best dates. We enjoy social time, but we know other providers who really don't because they like to be less visible.
By reading the websites and an email or two, you can find out very quickly.
...And you've made conflicting statements. Is it a "cocktail special" or a "cocktail hour special?" You must have meant cocktail special because, as others have said, the price for three hours isn't special. So the cocktail special means you have to pay the same price for watching her drink as you do for fucking.