...I see ladies ranging from mid 20's to mid 40's. I do introduce myself in initial contact and tell them my age. I'm 60. You may occasionally see an ad or a web site say they won't see guys over 55 or some such but that is rare. I only know of one. There are plenty of ladies that will see you. Others posters have given you good information. Welcome and have fun.
I am relatively new to this however a few years ago I did take part in a few intimate moments with two very beautiful and kind providers. My question is ...now that I am 61 and can't seem to find a partner of my own age or close to it that enjoys being intimate on a regular basis I would like to see a provider but am hesitant to do so due to my age...should I be?? Also would it be wise to inform them of my age so there are no surprises?? Thanks for your help in this matter..best to everyone
There are many of us here older than you still enjoying the ladies. I have a few years on you myself. Letting them know your age isn't a bad idea. You dont want to book with someone who would be "creeped out" the whole time. Age is just a number. It's not the years in your life, It's the life in your years that counts.
Agree.. Many providers prefer older guys ( I have no idea why)..
I was with my ATF Friday and her mother is younger than I am.. creeps me out, but doesn't bother her & another girl that I see routinely is only 23 (well. almost 24) and tells me that age is just a number and not to worry about it. I keep thinking that she was only born in 1990, and that seems like yesterday.. but don't sweat it..I'm 64 and agree with your reasons (cept I'm married).. When I was 40, I would have never thought that P4P was OK.. Now I feel zero guilt about it and I just enjoy it.. you do the same.. Life's short.. have fun..eat, drink, screw and die happy.. I intend to do just that..
As an over 60 myself... I find plenty of gals I want to see. I caution you against limiting yourself to only ONE... as the performance inevitably suffers. I rotate among a few... was 3 but now I need to find replacements for 2. You probably want to stay away from the youngest ages but there are plenty of mature ladies, in fine shape, 40s, 50's & maybe older. I would not specify your age but you might want to describe yourself as a mature gentleman.
Even at our ages... the cautions are still wise to only see well reviewed ladies, to use a hobby email not connected to your normal one & separate hobby cell. I suggest to read the Newbie board... read back several pages until you can answer all the questions yourself & read the self help section link by the life ring. There will always be some risk to this game we play... but we can minimize it.
...I see ladies ranging from mid 20's to mid 40's. I do introduce myself in initial contact and tell them my age. I'm 60. You may occasionally see an ad or a web site say they won't see guys over 55 or some such but that is rare. I only know of one. There are plenty of ladies that will see you. Others posters have given you good information. Welcome and have fun.
... in finding a provider of any age who wouldn't enjoy taking on a gentleman in his 60's.
I will say though when I'm approached my gentlemen in their 60's they often draw attention back to their age (self-depreciating humor) which I don't think is always needed. And back to about preference in age if anything I most providers with a policy of gents aged 40 % up so 61 would be no problem. At 61 imo the pool of ladies willing to take you on for some intimate moments is very plentiful.
My experience is that the older I get the lighter the screening and the happier they are to meet me
Just want to thank everyone who had responded to my query...good advise and thoughtful concern. Appreciate all the advise and encouragement...my hesitation has been greatly diminished...Thanks!!
I'm almost 67. I have seen providers ranging in age from just under 19 to just under 50. At least none of the older ones have admitted to being over 50, although I suspect some may have been.
As long as you have the green in the envelope, I don't think too many providers will care that you are over 60. It was previously mentioned that the number of providers with a low age limit far outnumber the ones that won't see you if you are over a certain age, and I agree with that. I have also seen comments from providers that really like us older guys, for various reasons.
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I have found that most young girls prefer older men. They all tell me the same thing "older men know how to treat the ladies" So many of the young guys treat them like sex toys. Well to me they are sex toys but I still treat them with respect and dignity, I always ask when I arrive if they want to service an old guy? I always say it's alright if you don't want to. I will leave with no hard feelings.
I'm 73, I have none turn me away after three years of being in the hobby. Some are as young as 18.
They are there to make money and it's an easy job taking care of me. Only one pop but it still takes quite awhile but they don't seem to mind. I haven't ever had one tell me I can't have a return visit. Most of them I have seen multiple times. Forget about age in this hobby.
So, at 61, don't worry about it.