Once you've established some regulars, you can run some of your fantasies by them, and some will respond positively. Others may recommend you to other clients via backchannel. Personally, I let my ATF run the show fairly often, and she found to her delight that I was willing to let her peg me. In this business, it becomes relatively easy to fulfill your bucket list wishes.
Hi everyone! So, as a provider, I'm wondering if there's a way to "advertise" a wishlist of sex acts I'd like to try... I know this gets tricky as my compensation is for time only, but with as many sexual experiences as I've had, I still have some I'd like to try.
For example: mmf/gangbangs (have done before but looooove), forced orgasms, camming, choking, fisting, etc.
So... I'm trying to combine my love of providing with certain experiences but I don't know how to really advertise for that. I know I could always do it in my free time, and I have, but it'd be nice to combine my passions.
Any suggestions for ways to do this? To request certain experiences or search out clients who are willing to do this?
Thanks!
Abbi
Advertise them on your website, on our local ad board and ask a client that engages in those type of sessions to place it prominently in his review of you.
Stress you are into heavy bdsm and PSE type sessions.
If you continuously advertise you do X or Y, you will get people who will contact you to experience them.
Sweet, thank you! Yeah it gets tricky because I'm so GFE, and don't want to be stretched to my sexual limits all the time, but sometimes I get that itch you know. I didn't even think of putting that on my website though, that's a good idea.
Thanks!
Abbi
But less prominently on your site and in your ad, say "I also offer the following: PSE, BDSM" etc etc etc.
That way people will know you are a GFE provider that has a kink side and the kink guys will feel more comfortable contacting you and you shouldn't lose any of the GFE type clients.
Some ladies devote a whole, separate page of their site to kink and some others actually use a separate website altogether where they usually cross promote the two.
Like bdsm that your partner knows what he's doing if you have no experience. Not always the easiest thing to find out. There's a lot of BS artist in this little world of ours.
Tons of communication is necessary for a good bdsm session. So many things to discuss before hand. Safe words, hard limits, compatibility, safety, pain threshold, duration, etc etc etc.
Many things can go wrong as expectations can often be quite different in bdsm.
Once you've established some regulars, you can run some of your fantasies by them, and some will respond positively. Others may recommend you to other clients via backchannel. Personally, I let my ATF run the show fairly often, and she found to her delight that I was willing to let her peg me. In this business, it becomes relatively easy to fulfill your bucket list wishes.
when are you coming to nyc?
Lol I've never actually been to NY, maybe it's time to experience the city
Keep me posted (as well as updated on your "wishes and wants" list)...
...is have a page that mentions your interest in fetish activities, but doesn't get too specific.
It might be useful to have a disclaimer that mentions that discussion of such things is only available to established clients. That way you protect yourself from "enhanced" activity with somebody you wouldn't feel comfortable with for that, while making your possible interest in such things known.
I'm not sure how your sessions typically go. But I usually talk to my clients and build a more personalized relationship with them. So, through our discussions, they get to know what I like and what I don't like.
I agree with the provider who suggested communication. I think being patient and getting a few trusted regulars, and discussing your fantasies (making sure we know it's fantasy-world here, where no one gets hurt for real) will get you what you want.
Personally, I'm hoping to move in that direction myself as I find an ATF, or at least a trusted GTG. I think patience, trust, and communication are the keys - all possible in a cordial, intimate business relationship.