Regarding the follow up text/email the following day.... Met with a visiting provider and had a really good time during the session we seemed to hit it off. Received a text from her later that evening with her "personal" cell number. Thanked her for number and for the great session earlier that afternoon. Was she looking to get back together that evening? if so whats the protocol as far as booking time or is all that out the window when she is inviting you over?
Just curious what everyone's thoughts are
Getting into the hobby and was curious about how ladies like to be asked about giving referrals. Do I ask at the end of the session, ask after via text/email, or ?
I don't want to make assumptions and needlessly cause friction. Thanks!
Someone typically always thanks the other and vice versa. That's a great time to ask if you feel uncomfortable asking in person.
Regarding the follow up text/email the following day.... Met with a visiting provider and had a really good time during the session we seemed to hit it off. Received a text from her later that evening with her "personal" cell number. Thanked her for number and for the great session earlier that afternoon. Was she looking to get back together that evening? if so whats the protocol as far as booking time or is all that out the window when she is inviting you over?
Just curious what everyone's thoughts are
there's a button to press to ask for her OK.
We would recommend having some sort of text and email follow up afterwards. It is always nice to hear from clients! We've had some even volunteer to respond to a hobbiest who is considering us (which is nice). This works so much better when you think about building relationships when you are seeing someone. You never know when it may be nice to contact someone you saw a while back. So even if you are certain you won't see that provider again, there is nothing wrong with ending on a good note (and it may come back to help you if you need or want a referral). Most of us are pretty good about giving referrals because we know you are going to see others.
Best advice: be friendly and be yourself!
Good luck and welcome to the hobby!!
Tori & Nick
Best advice: be friendly and be yourself!
Good luck and welcome to the hobby!!
Tori & Nick
I'll play it by ear and do what feels right at the time.