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I was perusing a couple of TER advertisements and it made me think about asking this.
How long does it take to establish yourself as a regular? One, two, three visits?

Like every other wedneday I see Harry at 2pm or Every month I see Dick. Visits aren't routine, you can fall off after the 3rd visit.

It will mean different things to different people.
To some it means seeing someone at a "regular" interval (once a week, once a month, etc.) If you are in different cities it could be someone you see every time she tours your city, or someone you see every time you are in her city. (That might be only once a year but over the course of a few years). To some it is anyone who repeats. I have had at least 3 different escorts (and a couple of streetwalkers, back in the day) call me a regular after just two visits. I wouldn't consider that the norm, but like I said, different meanings to different people.  

If you are seeing it in provider ads, as in, "looking for a few regulars," then they are probably looking for a few clients who will repeat often, giving them some sort of constant income.

Posted By: davincib1
I was perusing a couple of TER advertisements and it made me think about asking this.  
 How long does it take to establish yourself as a regular? One, two, three visits??  
 
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I can speak to this actually since I take on few new clients, and enjoy the company of regular “friends”.  Regularity is defined as everything from weekly, bi-weekly, once every few months, a monthly overnight or even a fellow I travel with roughly once a quarter.   I’ve had one regular that sees me more or less twice a week and has done so for years and clients that only see me a few times a year.  It is entirely defined by the gentleman’s interest and probably his financial budget in seeing that provider on a certain schedule.  Often times a regular sees other ladies as well but may gravitate towards a favorite.  Sometimes a regular will be hot on one companion for awhile and then move on to another as his tastes and interests change.  I have found that when a man clicks with a companion on several levels and there is intense attraction then he will tend to repeat with that woman more regularly because he knows what to expect when he sees her, and can imagine and fantasize about it in between visits.  There is just an intangible something that works when you see someone regularly over time.  The wonderful part of a regular on both sides of the fence is that it allows for the introduction to try new things and push boundaries as part of the overall fun, and that can take a few dates sometimes to express and explore.  I have one client I’ve known for years who has explored boundaries I never thought he would be interested in.  But as I suggest new things, he has remained open minded to giving new toys/positions a shot and he has turned me on to some things as well.
 
I do know that if a regular doesn’t feel valued at some point, or if a companion doesn’t continue to offer the experience that he feels keeps him coming back, then he will move on and become someone else’s regular.   I think most women put a very high value on men who repeat on whatever time frame works for the client, and they will put effort into keeping them if the client treats them well.  

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Posted By: davincib1
I was perusing a couple of TER advertisements and it made me think about asking this.  
 How long does it take to establish yourself as a regular? One, two, three visits??  
 
It just depends on the Provider. With a few I was considered a Regular just after one visit. With other providers it was after two visits. It helps if you're Super Nice and Polite to her. Because some guys tend to treat these providers in a not so nice way. Treating them nice seems to go a long way with a provider. And they'll remember you much more. Well that's been my experience.  

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I have been very fortunate that some well-mannered, kind, generous men have found me worthy of seeing regularly.  I am flattered and remain humbled by their repeat visits and I'm sure other providers would say the same as well of their fav "friends".   Most of the women on the boards would probably agree that men who are really decent guys that we enjoy being with, who become regular clients, are always treasured and their continued attention is immeasurably appreciated.  Most companions feel it is also a huge turn on as a woman, for us to feel desired by a client that we want to see again and again!

I can't emphasize enough how often I hear women refer to their fav clients as being gentleman and nice guys.   You can be a warrior in the sack and still be a totally nice guy.  I just had dinner with a fellow provider last night and we of course touched base on how much we enjoy our regular clients who are such nice gracious fellows (no names were mentioned of course, that would be tawdry).  So here is a toast to.... regulars!

Cheers... Now where did you have dinner? Surely not Applebee's

Posted By: davincib1
I was perusing a couple of TER advertisements and it made me think about asking this.  
 How long does it take to establish yourself as a regular? One, two, three visits??  
 

Posted By: davincib1
I was perusing a couple of TER advertisements and it made me think about asking this.  
 How long does it take to establish yourself as a regular? One, two, three visits??  
 

I have seen a few ladies as my definition of regular.  Most of the time I get taken for granted.  I am not a young guy and I typically see young ladies, I think they feel I should "love" the time simply being with a young lady.  Seems very short sighted as I compensate well for time spent.

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