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Chanel72014 See my TER Reviews 367 reads
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Yeah, you can do that but some people are nosy. You can't help that either.  

Posted By: mrfisher
OK, or not OK.  
   
 I know that can be tough to do, but it would remove the whole gossip factor.  
   
 

sasha2cute1157 reads

Please please please girls; when you are checking references with other providers. DO NOT tell the client what the other provider said. Other providers will DNS your ass in no time and won't give you more reference checks. Also if you ask for references but never check them... What's the point?

I have seen this lately with a few providers and it really rubbed me the wrong way. I know they are probably new so I'm trying to be understanding but other providers will not be as kind.  

Stay safe and happy Memorial Day weekend 😘Xoxo

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Fancy8888475 reads

Posted By: sasha2cute
Please please please girls; when you are checking references with other providers. DO NOT tell the client what the other provider said. Other providers will DNS your ass in no time and won't give you more reference checks. Also if you ask for references but never check them... What's the point?  
   
 I have seen this lately with a few providers and it really rubbed me the wrong way. I know they are probably new so I'm trying to be understanding but other providers will not be as kind.  
   
 Stay safe and happy Memorial Day weekend 😘Xoxo
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Debra_Hollander485 reads

But yes, new ladies: this is largely frowned upon by your fellow providers.  

Posted By: sasha2cute
Please please please girls; when you are checking references with other providers. DO NOT tell the client what the other provider said.
In the past year or so, virtually every single piece of information I've given to an inquiring provider has been repeated to the client: good, funny, or negative, the ladies just cannot keep the details to themselves.  Obviously, this can lead to problems.  
Now, I just advise ladies to check the BL resources.  ;-)
 
Posted By: sasha2cute
Also if you ask for references but never check them... What's the point?  
There's a Catch-22 with new providers and references, though.  Many ladies, including me, will not provide a reference for un-reviewed ladies who have yet to establish themselves.  Sometimes I won't even respond.  

Thank you for the PSA, Sasha.... discretion is something which we all need to practice.  :-)

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jaydalee342 reads

don't know how to keep things to themselves.Starting a whole lot of unnecessary drama.
Reference is not a right it is a courtesy some seem to have forgotten this.
+1 on what you said Debra.

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mrfisher374 reads

OK, or not OK.

I know that can be tough to do, but it would remove the whole gossip factor

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Chanel72014368 reads

Yeah, you can do that but some people are nosy. You can't help that either.  

Posted By: mrfisher
OK, or not OK.  
   
 I know that can be tough to do, but it would remove the whole gossip factor.  
   
 

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Fancy8888344 reads

Posted By: mrfisher
OK, or not OK.  
   
 I know that can be tough to do, but it would remove the whole gossip factor.  
   
 
No reason to be nosey and gossiping.Stick with important keys to references checks in illegal business.

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