References can also be used as verification.Not just employment
Why is it that you have to work for someone to be qualified as a good person? I find myself in a difficult position. Until six months ago I had been living at a Christian ministry, and that was for over 5 years. I am now ready to re-enter the world and I want to re-establish myself with women. When I discovered TER I thought I had it made! But it looks as if I may never experience love again if I can't get verified. I am self employed and semi-retired. Also financially secure, in great shape, a gentleman, and finally, certainly no cop! How can I prove any of this? Any help is greatly appreciated. Thank you!
References can also be used as verification.Not just employment
...with his not being in a traditional work situation.
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...find the 800 number, call them, (don't just go by what they site says, call them) and discuss your situation. They verify retired, self-employed, and others that don't have the usual work situation for verification. Yes, you'll have to give them information to verify you with but it's once and that's it. Then look for Newbie Friendly ladies on P411. Many will see you without any further information than your P411 info. Some may still want added personal information. It's up to you to decide what you're willing to give out.
What is that? The other side of AM?
Are you a VIP member? If so you can send and receive messages on TER.
Steph xoxo
never had an issue being verified. provided some info that could easily be googled (linkedin, trustworthy current contractors/clients, website, etc.). then quickly obtained a few whitelist referrals after some appointments with a few awesome providers. don't know if any of this helps your situation, but it's what i did.
do not confuse it with "love". It has proven to be a good substitute for many guys.
or even Date-Check. Call them, I am sure they have creative ways to verify you. Once you are verified there, that opens the door to women who will take a chance on a guy who doesn't have references. You gotta do a little work, but it's worth it.
But before you do that, definitely research her REALLY well 
Employment verification is really just a way for us to know exactly who you are... to put a face behind the name. You're not "Chris Smith," you're a identifiable person - and not only that, you're considerate enough to respect our need to feel safe.
She might be able to work with you, especially if there are a lot of things written about you online.
It's when a guy will not divulge any info - or, if he does divulge info, he seems not to exist - that it's tough to verify him.