Why not try a TS?

See if you can enjoy yourself.  I love to masturbate too!  loo Smile 4 me!

But can you tell me what you are thinking about or looking at during your masturbation?
When you are with a provider have you done it all...all of the positions
role play
kink/fetish
masturbation
toys
srapon

Two observations:

a) Consider what the TS can offer for you that a GG cannot. Is that what you are after? If not, you may be disappointed.

b) If you are curious enough to take a walk on the wild side, choose a reputable provider (e.g., P411). Do your research here, on the TER TS board; there are a lot of fakes out there.

Personally, I became curious enough a couple of years ago to try: twice with well reviewed TSs and once just TOFTT (an Eros ad). All were OK experiences. None were super and this convinced me that I belong on this side of the river.

But I am happy to have given it a try. The first and third girls were sweet.

PM me if you want details.

i'm well over 60, and find my desires have changed. i now am exclusively looking for matured women 41+ yrs old.  i do enjoy intercourse and oral, but prefer to cum with a hj. didn't used to be that way but now it's a preference.

I'm 63 and I've lost so much sensation that there isn't a condom in the world that will allow me to enjoy, or even have, vaginal sex.  I've never had a problem getting an erection, but if you can't feel anything, even Viagra won't help you keep it.

When I reached the point where I could only cum from a BJ or HJ (anal is OK too), the hassle of screening and jumping through hoops to see a provider was no longer worth it.  I finally realized that spending many hundreds of dollars for a HJ or BJ was ridiculous, no matter how good they were, or how much I would otherwise enjoy a lady's company.  Sucks getting old, as they say.

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And if the reasons you have had in the past are not of interest to you and you have not found other types of excitement or companionship from us, then no need to feel like you should continue.  
Not sure why a TS would make a difference but if you want to go that route then you should. That is your next interest/adventure.

 
ps. I bake cookies, like conversation or listening to others talk and like oral  

As one ages, ones body changes in many ways. And your finding out how yours is.  
You still enjoy the intimate aspect of being with a woman. So why not spice it up a bit.

Ask one of the ladies you get along with, best. To find you a TS that would be compatible with you/your personality and needs. And to invite said TS over for a 3sum. And let your provider be the DOM, and dominate you and the TS in an erotic yet way that would get your mind off masturbation and more on the UNINHIBITED TABOO side of pleasure. NO the 3sum wouldn't be like what a one would expect a 3sum to be. But having your provider there, might help ease the nerves of being wiith a TS for the first time. And who better to pick one for you, than a provider who knows you intimately.
(I've done this for some hobbyist experience the same thing as you and it's been some of the most erotic taboo pleasures they ever experienced)

And OR...pick out a strap on you might like to try and ask your provider to use it on you. Gently of course.

OR buy a FLESHLIGHT and let your provider use it on you......talk about erotic pleasure with a woman.....this is outside the norm but you'll surely enjoy it!!!

 
One should never be ashamed of trying something new. No matter ones age.  Strap on and TS are NOT going to turn one.....rather it will spice up the pleasure in your life and give you a thrill that you've never felt before........or haven't felt in a long time.
(now I'm speaking in general..so it's for anyone going through the similar issue or have thoughts about it but haven't ventured to try it. SO please don't take offense to what I express. I'm very honest and straight forward and I see the beauty in the uninhibited pleasures that some have yet to enjoy.)

 
Good luck and hope this helps anyone......
 

Similar frustration.  I'm 65 and sometimes find that I control the act and the environment better with masturbating.  However, I'm in really bad shape compared to you.  I can't always get it up and keep it up, and rarely if ever can cum.  Yes it's damn expensive watching some dream girl try to work you over and you can't respond.  I've discovered that pleasing my partner early without expectation of return causes any escort to fully relax to a point that you'll relax with her.  However, that said, I'm finding that discussion on the issue with other vets has opened some new vistas, and that in fact some providers can be very successful with me.  The search is cumbersome.  I lucked upon one by word of mouth who has developed an external prostate massage that will relax my prostate and make me cum like a 20 years old - even if only partially erect.  I've also found that arousal may differ based on the senses you provide - and in particular the environment.  Outcalls work much better, and frankly some providers are more relaxed in an outcall situation.  I've tried the porn out of frustration that things weren't working and found that I was selectively picking what I watched, and that in the end, the smells, gentle touches, etc. weren't there.  I  have concluded that at least until the dog's dead I should continue to look for that right mix of herbal products and viagra that keep me responsive, a good adjustable cock ring to keep it hard after it's up, and enjoy the sight's and smell of sex w/ a partner a little bit longer.  Last evening I linked up w/ a girl who at best was a tramp in a trashy hotel.  But, I got harder than in years, fucked in several positions unknown to God and man for almost 20 mins and didn't cum.  It sounds like the two of us are looking for our new comfort zones.  Hang in there.