1. Do not leave any incriminating evidence around that you SO can pick up on.
2. You may want to hobby around lunch if your job provide that flexibility, say, 11:30-1pm. If you SO never track your lunch activities then she would not be the wiser. Just do not let your hobbying interfere with your family life or the time you spend with your family.
3. If you travel hobby then. The lady that you met surely is great, but there are many others around in almost any city, just do some research firts to avoid wasting time with ripoffs or upsellers.
4. Don't talk in your sleep. If you do then your are screwed, cannot help you there.

... unless of course, you have done something horrible to the provider, which doesn't sound like the situation here.  I've received a few calls in the past where the SO is calling back cell numbers she doesn't recognize on a phone bill, and a call from a jealous escort checking to sese if her boyfriend is seeing other escorts. Generally the conversation starts out with someone asking me,'Who are you?' and my response is, 'Who wants to know!' Blah, blah, blah, and then I'll say 'Sorry, I have another call, goodbye'.

I hate it when that happens ... the last thing I need is a furious SO making trouble for me!  

So, guys, for the sake of all escorts, please be very careful not to leeave  trail for your SO to find ... please don't give her the opportunity to cause trouble for us!

kisses
Suzanne in San Diego


-- Modified on 9/11/2005 6:36:05 PM

dont call from the same cell plan you share with your s/o

Its really that simple..

Deal with the SO!!

This one has bugged me all week and I keep trying to leave it alone ...a battle I've finally lost to compulsion (I just glad I'm the only one on TER with that problem!).

What really bugs me about this is that the problem here was never addressed by anyone - DEAL WITH YOUR SO!!  Its those issues that are causing her to pry, causing you to sneak around, and that will just get worse over time.

Plenty of experienced folks here with plenty of great tips for maintaining privacy, and for keeping your ass out of the fire...but thats not really the problem here.

I kept hoping someone else would step in here (where is Captain Obvious?) with what struck me as clearly the root problem.

Treat your SO as an adult and TALK to her - tell her she is making you uncomfortable and that you feel like she is searching and prying!  

OK, I'm done ranting ....but then thats why I'm Deep Heat in the first place.

 -- Deep {flame off} Heat