Rather than start a new thread, I saw a comment from a provider saying you should NOT gush about their "great reviews."
Since I thought it was a compliment, I included that in a few of my initial contacts. I didn't get any blow back from it and thought nothing of it until I saw that provider comment in a post. So what is the deal with not mentioning her great reviews? I'm missing the logic there. In any other line of business or service (including the performing arts) mentioning great reviews would be welcomed, and something to be proud ofIs it ok to ask in an E-mail if what you are offering in our session will match your TER reviews.
You would essentially be asking her if every single detail and sex act written is ok with her. The reviews/profile are a general guideline, not a be all and end all.
From there you want to contact her reviewers by pm to get more inside info. But even then, the menu options are still on a case by case basis and subject to change or "ymmv" as used here.
One girl can do X with one guy and refuse to do X with another. It's her body and her call.
While a small percentage of girls may respond "yes" to your question, the vast majority, imho, would not be happy with it, may ignore your email and possibly DNS you. Don't do it.
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and let me add, that while there "might" be a tactful way to ask this question, if you have to ask the question you don't have the experience to even try.
Newbies should stick to seeing "well reviewed providers" and if there is not enough info in the reviews, you should simply move on until you reach a point where you are answering these types of questions and not asking them.
Just don't. Would you ask a florist or contractor if his/her services will match their yelp / Angies list reviews? Would you be comfortable asking that of anyone who provides a service? "Hey, are you as good as the people on Yelp say you are at cutting hair?" No, don't do it.
PM her recent reviewers. If the review doesn't mention a menu item you're looking for, you may be able to verify if it was or wasn't on offer. Don't ask the girl. She will probably cut off contact with you.
There is a popular Provider I''m hoping to see in the future but I have at least one deal-breaker item. Her Profile says "No" (deal breaker) and a few reviewers say No but most of her reviewers specify Yes, even spectacular Yes. I need to clarify that with her ahead of time and I was thinking of using reviews to tell her about ME (not her): "I like most of the same things that Tom, Dick and Harry like."
Yeah, it's tricky, but it can be done carefully and politely once you sense that you're communicating well and it won't blow up.
SB: The florist (and contractor) analogy was just the opposite! I would DEFINITELY ask the florist about every important detail. "I was at a function and you did the centerpieces. Do you still have those little blue flowers? What about the big pink ones? Are they fresh or droopy? And there was some kind of fancy plastic thing holding stuff up: I don't want a plain stick or a piece of brown wire; those fancy curvy silver plastic things are a deal breaker on this order. Of course, a good BBBJ will make me forget all about the silver plastic things." Many florists and caterers even provide a FREE SAMPLE so you will know exactly what to expect ahead of time. Not many providers do that!
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I said in my OP "sometimes yes" almost exactly as you describe. The point on the NB isn't what SOME girls MAY do, it is what MOST girls WILL do. And the fact that you say it is "tricky" is exactly why newbs shouldn't be doing it, imo.
You and I have tons of experience and can word things in a way that won't get us into trouble 99% of the time, but newbs don't have the experience to fish in those shark infested waters without getting bit. They don't yet possess the "sense" to determine if something is about to "blow up" when they are in communications with a gal.
What you are referring to is "Advanced Whore Mongering", while these dudes are learning "Whore Mongering 101." Lol
If he asked this on the GD, I would agree with your point more, but he didn't, he asked it here, and there are many newb lurkers who read this board and the best advice, imo, is to have them steer clear of what you refer to do.
I just had someone on P411 ask me this question I told him to go to ter.
I mean after a provider has 100+reviews and has current reviews there is no reason to ask this kind of question it makes me uncomfortable.If the reviews all pretty much say what the profile says there is no reason to ask that if there is major inconsistencies that is different story.But still watch what you say.
Unless you want your email to be ignored.
That is why we have reviews. Pay the vip fee and read them as I am sure you will
be enlightened as to what is offered.
Please don't do that as I would hate for you to get ignored.
Makenzie
Rather than start a new thread, I saw a comment from a provider saying you should NOT gush about their "great reviews."
Since I thought it was a compliment, I included that in a few of my initial contacts. I didn't get any blow back from it and thought nothing of it until I saw that provider comment in a post.
So what is the deal with not mentioning her great reviews?
I'm missing the logic there.
In any other line of business or service (including the performing arts) mentioning great reviews would be welcomed, and something to be proud of
Every provider will have a different way of doing things. If you pass screening with nothing questionable, then that would be fine. Although it isn't the norm to ever be off site of TER and be specific with questions about a session.