So a non-response is passive-aggressive rejection
I've made a couple appointment requests on P411 with listed providers. But sometimes it is days (or never) before they login and check.
I try to schedule a week to 3 days in advance. And I don't want to double book and then have to cancel on a provider. But if the P411 provider doesn't check often, then my advance time starts slipping away and I start losing the chance to go with another provider in that timeframe.
Doesn't P411 send them an email or something about a request
So a non-response is passive-aggressive rejection
Look at the girls as small business owners who have no one else to mind the store. Meaning? Some are on vacation, some only check their emails every few days, some have family, civie work, personal things to do, etc so escorting takes a back seat.
Don't get all hooked into one girl. Always have a list and work that list. If gal A doesnt get back in a timely fashion, go to gal B on your list and so on.
Remember, for many gals, this is a side interest and not their be all and end all. If you view it that way, you won't take the lack of a timely response personally.
Not hooked, just being considerate by not double booking, only to get the non-response that blows my schedule.
Girls who have Gmail accounts get there appointment request in there Promotions file. This is the file that a lot of junk mail goes into. If the provider does not set P411's mail to go to there Primary inbox they will not know 50% of the time that they have received a request. Contact her by email to let her know you sent a request.
Hope this helps.
Kelis Monet
I get email notifications. I think there is a setting to determine whether we get notifications or not. Like someone else here said, it depends on the girl and how she handles her business. Me personally, I always get back to someone even it to tell them I'm not interested.
All levels money is king.
If she has been on the site and hasn't responded to you, move on.
you can do one of two things. Move on, or use an alternative method of contact. If she is not checking emails all the time, or logging into P411, there is not much you can do. If I was in a time bind as you seem to be, I'd be trying other ways to contact her and tell her you have sent her a request thru P411 and gotten no reply. Personally, I rarely use that method of contact as you never know how often she checks those messages. I'd use her personal, from her website or profile, email or phone as a method of contact.
LLAP,
Swim
Well, sometimes their on-line contact page requires too much information which is why I am paying for P411. Then there is the blurb on contact pages stating "If all this information is not provided, we will ignore your request".
I agree with the OP in that I like booking early. I have my A list and my B list. I would hate to try to contact my A provider and them prove unresponsive, then contact my B provider and eventually have my A provider respond positively