and back in my younger days it was my favorite means of getting to meet women. Dancing in clubs and making a good impression on the dance floor usually got me at least a phone number if not an overnight partner after the clubs closed. I love to listen to music during a session and, as someone said before, instrumentals can sometimes make it more sensual and sometimes lyrics can be distracting but over all I just enjoy a nice horizontal bop.
I am 90% sure I just admitted I am bad at the fucking, but it is the truth.
I like music and I like sex. But, they are unrelated.
it is like someone saying a panoramic view is sexy or the food at dinner was sexy... I just cannot make the connection.
And yes: I am white, I can't/refuse to dance and can code. NO JUDGMENT ZONE YOU FUX!
Now.. that is really sexy and interrelated, music does get me in the mood.. !!
..when it comes to sex no thanks. IF an escort has it on I nicely ask her to turn it off. Rarely one will insist in which case I whip out my phone and we fuck to Dark Star or Kind of Blue.
But if it motivates her, I'm all for it. I recall a favorite of mine had a play list for fucking and she literally danced on my dick.
You should now up that 90% number to 100% that you are bad at fucking...
Next time you're in a session, ask the provider to put on CNN or Fox News for the hour and see if that helps any LOL !!
music. I lost access to my four thousand dollar i tunes music collection. About three thousand songs or more each costing one to two dollars each.
I lost access to email associated with it and also dont know the answer to security question. Aplle doesnt care about a photo i.d. being mailed to them or that all purchases were made with my debit card.
My erotic playlist started out with "hot toddie" by usher.
My massage playlist had native american flute and lots of other nice relaxing songs.
Then i had a rock a billy playlist. Franki valliu playlist whom i love when decorating and cleaning my apt wicked happy. Then i had eighties metal, then alternative, hip hop, rap, r n b, electronic jazz, metal all those genre of play list oh and electronic.
I got so angry about losing this collection the hours and thousands I spent on making it over 2-3 years. I honestly thought of suing. Since i paid 4 grand for all it and now because i dont have a security answer or access to that email i lose out? I called many many times and they never can help me .
I have to just suck it up and start a new one.
For now i have access to this cable channel with music I use this singers and swing channel. It is kind of like 1950's frank sinatra ish type style music.
On several occasion I selected the broadway showtunes channel by accident since the name is similiar. When the theme to carousel or music man came on mid blow job we just like burst out laughing! Totally not good for romance but it made us crack up!
It happened again last sat. night at a 90 minute massage/gfe combo with new client. Some weird broadway musical song came on he was like" Uh, What are you playing!" We both were like laughing so hard! It was mid blow job.
I actually was sick and tired of all 4 thousand songs in my play list so its ok i will start over. One positive is it is supporting musicians which I like doing. I used to make it a point to see my favorite bands in concert and buy merch and stuff from them at thier concerts since that's the only time they keep all the profits and not the record labels.
I had the biggest metal and industrial music t shirt collection you ever seen.
When we buy the i tunes songs or cd from store, Record labels take most the profit, So if you truly love a band you go the show and buy from them direct, Plus there are hot guys with tats and big muscles at shows that was a good reason to go too.......................................
Sadly, on more than one occasion I've found myself more interested in the music playing than what she was doing.
so each person's take on it will be unique.
When I was very young, I used to play Ravel's Bolero over and over. I guess that pretty much determined my life's arc.
...especially the slow grinding stuff. That is fucking music if there ever was any. Most blues is fucking music and by that I mean music to fuck to. (I'd venture to say there is a lot of music about fucking and I'm not talking about lyrics.) There is a Jimi Hendrix tune in the movie about the angel that falls in love with a human woman. It just makes you want to get it on. Speaking of getting it on how about the Marvin Gaye tune "Let's Get it On". Music does have an effect and can set and/or influence the mood.
Not everyone will like the same stuff since age and experience will influence preferences but music is an enhancement. You or maybe I should say I can't listen to Enigma without thinking of fucking and wanting to participate in same.
If there isn't any music I still enjoy the sex and I have had a session or two where the radio was playing. The talking nearly ruined the experience. It is true that in the heat of the moment you may not hear the music but before and after it makes the experience better.
I listen tousic in my car, and I enjoy going to concerts and music festivals, and like a good band at a cluvb or party, but i could care less either way about having music during a session.
It was something about the melody and his tongue...perfect rhythm.
I believe if the music doesn't have any lyrics it's easy to concentrate on your partner.
I mean most music is about love, and sex goes with love.sometimes lol. So there you go.
Sum songs are super hot. Some artists I like for sensual music are Usher, Trey Songz, Miguel, Ginuwine...yeah r&b is a sexy genre! I realize it's not for everyone, but for me it works...
For sessions I usually just play lounge music, for background noise and because I know that tastes vary so much....you've inspired me to get to work on some playlists lol.
But, I think it's sad that you don't know any sexy music. Maybe you can search YouTube for some songs in the genre you prefer.
and back in my younger days it was my favorite means of getting to meet women. Dancing in clubs and making a good impression on the dance floor usually got me at least a phone number if not an overnight partner after the clubs closed. I love to listen to music during a session and, as someone said before, instrumentals can sometimes make it more sensual and sometimes lyrics can be distracting but over all I just enjoy a nice horizontal bop.