I have a nice Dinner date with this gorgeous lovely lady, we go to a nice restaurant I have chosen, we enter the restaurant and we pay at once all the attention.
Her look is incredible sexy, everything is fine, small talk, the waiter brings us the menu. She orders her menu: first a starter, then a second starter, then main menu a steak (the big one, she says she is very hungry) together with baked potato. I love to eat a lot, but what she ordered was way too much. The first starter she tries a little (salat), the second starter was a pasta (heavy food), she look more then eat, the rest goes back to the kitchen, the steak arrives and she tells me that she is already full. One piece of the stak and the nice cooked steak with the potato goes back to the kitchen. At the end she orders a dessert which she almost tastes. The waiter asks her if it is fine and she says “delicious”. Lets get this the right way. It is not about the money, when I pay 1.5k for a date, I don’t care about paying that amount more. And if she is hungry and eats all, I am more then pleased. But it is about the non eaten food which goes right back to the garbage. This happens to me all the time when I am with provider. I sometime think they want to impress by ordering way too much. As a European I just don’t understand it, because this happens only in the USA. Don’t tell me not to do dinner dates anymore, I like the rest of it way toooo much.
...with your writing being so poor.
Took a stripper out for dinner one night... This gal has not an ounce of fat on her... she orders $300 worth of sashimi.... AND eats ALL of it, I got very little... But I am not complaining... would be were I you!
A provider asked me to take her out.... we ordered three dishes! she ate her fair share....
Maybe is was the ladies? or maybe when they are with me, they know that they will regejutate once they see my greenness...? who knows???
You are Euporean........you style of eating is much different that the of the US.......I have a client that is French and it drives him crazy to eat with me and for me to eat with him......Thank God that we have better things to focus on than how the other eats.
You might try restaurants that offer several different dishes that are shared....It's certainly more fun that way.
Personally, I enjoy food and always enjoy a client that enjoys me having fun with it.....he totally benefits in the end as oppossed to someone is put off by it.
Maybe you need to care less about what or how she eats and be more concerned with the sharing of the wine or saki and flirt.......the food shouldn't be the issue of the dinner date. The companionship should.
X's Summer
...I agree that food isn't the ONLY part of a dinner date, but enjoying food is part or enjoying life as is enjoying sex. Oddly enough, I took a provider out in Paris for dinner and she insisted (after I arrived) on private time together first so that we would not have to rush through dinner. This was quite sweet since our 3 hours went into time off the clock (we were out for a longtime) but she also picked at her food. But when desert came, she tore into it---maybe I am perverse but watching a beautiful woman eat with obvious enjoyment is sexy. Maybe this is what the original post found odd.
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I think that it's sexy to share food.
X's Summer
Most buffets suck, but if you're in Vegas, there are many excellent ones. That way, it really makes no difference how much or how little she eats. The downside is that, in a buffet, most people think they've got to eat, eat, eat to ensure they get their money's worth. I just like trying small portions of as many different foods - especially those I've never tried before - as possible. This newbie guesses that some of the other all-you-can-eat stuff in Vegas ain't bad, either! Can't wait 'til February!
so, when I'm out on a longer date involving food, I like to order things we can share and food that is erotic to eat. Nothing like see the look in a mans face when I tear a piece of lobster meat, dip in butter and slurp and suck on it, then for dessert lick the cream out of strawberries - yummmmmmmmmy
I don't eat much on dinner dates; but I also don't order really filling dishes. What I *do* order I eat with gusto.
Basically, I want to eat just enough to feel satiated but not full; full slows me down and makes me sleepy. So I usually like a small salad, grazing the bread basket, and a light entree; not pasta, for instance, but maybe a chicken breast and veggies.
Not because I don't like to eat - I love to eat - but more like an athlete gearing up before and event; just the right amount of the right stuff.
Gross. We eat entirely too much and many of our restuarants go way over the top. In America, people most often mistake value with quantity. Now, the other side of the story is the lack of sophistication of your date. If she's not been to really nice places where portions are smaller and prices higher, she may have a hard time discriminating what to order and why. Not knowing the city you were in, I suspect you went to the tourist steak place; good, serviceable, but designed to impress with the amount of food, rather than ambience and the hot bar tender who gives you her number, that's another story.
In this case, she sounds like a fish (pun intended) out of water, then you get what you get. Try places such as Sushi bars or Tapas bars where the portions tend to be smaller, but don't necessarily sacrifice on quality. If her lack of taste or sophistication is your issue, upgrade to providers who demonstrate that they can handle situations with a little bit more like "I've been there." My hope is that she performed elsewhere, but it sounds like you were so bummed by the meal portion, that you hit your stride and left. The old maxim in this is: Don't buy Cristal when she is a Champale kinda gal.
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I think you nailed it in commenting on the woman being a little out of her depth; that's the first thing I thought as well. People tend to behave like this if they subconsciously (or otherwise) think something won't happen again, or at least not any time soon. Kind of like stocking up on the experience. There's no urgency if it's something you do often.
If you've ever owned a BMW, Saab, Jaguar, etc.. type car into a repair shop you know first hand how expensive it is to have them worked on. A simple task costs a fortune, every part costs a fortune too. If you have the money to pay for a high priced automobile then you also have the money to toss around come repair time too right?
If you can shell out $1500 for some pu**y, she figures that spending a c note on her dinner is a drop in the bucket.
That's my theory anyway 