When you said you wish your husband was gay.
So......I want to surprise my sweetheart when we go to Las Vegas in June with the typical "guy" bucket list item of two women. I am looking for someone 35-50....and intelligence is a must. So building a bit of rapport would be key for me. He has made it quite clear he is only interested if I am turned on by her.
But my situation is this.....I'm finding that some of the providers aren't comfortable with the fact that I'm married. My home situation is that my husband has never really liked sex and we haven't had it in years (and no, he's not gay, wish he was) but we DO have a 'don't ask, don't tell' policy. I find it a bit strange that probably a good portion of their male clientele are married and they don't have an issue with it, but they do have an issue with me being married. My feeling is that I'm paying a substantial sum of money for 2-3 hours of their time, and this is a business transaction.
Does anyone has any insight to providers who would not consider this a deal breaker? I know locally, no one would even inquire, but in Sin City....for the caliber of person I'm looking for, it's been a bit of a stumbling block.
FWIW....I did do this one time previously with my only other lover years ago and the provider did say if I wanted to come with her on calls asking for two women - to give her a call, so I do have access to a provider referral if needed
i am a bit perplexed why you are having a problem...have you been given a specific reason or just because you are married?
...I am also a married woman, and most of the providers that I have seen knew that and it was never an issue (including a few visiting LV providers). I can't imagine that being a reason to disqualify you for a nice playdate. There has to be something else behind this.
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When you said you wish your husband was gay.
Ok folks...thanks. To be honest, I only contacted one person who was nice...but wrote back she wasn't comfortable and preferred married couples (which we are...just not to each other! LOL). Then I saw another I wanted to use and she had a blurb about preferring "couples to be married more than two years and in a loving relationship". Didn't contact her but wondered, is this a thing? So perhaps I just need to forge on!!
And about wishing hubby was gay - at least I'd have a reason for him not wanting sex, ever. But that's another topic.....:-
Unfortunately you just happened to have the bad luck to stumble across a couple whose policies differ from the norm.
I'm sorry; I know that can be quite off-putting. :hugs:
For future contacts with other providers who interest you, my advice is to NOT share the specifics of your situation. Because with more high-strung ladies, your particular dynamic can sound like it has the potential for drama.
Plus, unless we ask, it's really none of our business. At least, that's my feeling. ;-P
I don't ask any clients if they're married. I no longer see couples (but not for the reasons you might imagine lol) however..... when I did, I didn't ask them if they were married or had been together any length of time; as long as both passed my screening, then we were good to go! 
If you're interested, I'm very happy to share more detailed advice & even recommendations, if you'd like. PM or email me any time!
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Heather D'Angelo is fabulous! Very intelligent and very sexy. Good luck! And have fun when you finally make solid plans. 😊
I have had a few very fun trysts with couples who were both married to other people. A naughty escape to Las Vegas make even more risque with an additional playmate. Take a look at my site and check out my reviews. I have a couple of very hot couples reviews.
I hope to hear from you
You say you want to find a provider in Vegas that will do a double with you and your lover.
You say that you are married, but that your hubby is not into sex, but isn't gay, which you would prefer.
You say that you are having trouble finding providers that will see you because you and your lover are married.
What you didn't say explicitly is that your lover and your husband are not one and the same. Lover is married to someone else, you are married to a hubby that will not be part of the provider session.
Correct?
If so, the only thing I can say is that they don't want to get involved in two separate relationships at the same time. They'd have to tell you why, themselves.
Heather D' angelo, curveycoedcarly or Holly Davis as well as VipSensualSofia, my wife and i have seen Heather and carly,and have plans with holly and possibly sofia in a few months.......they are all fantastic ladies.......im not sure why anyone would care that you are married, im not even sure you need to disclose hat info to them. Good luck,there are some great ladies out there, you also may want to try Katrina Kovell shes very well reviewed and a nice girl as well.
But my situation is this.....I'm finding that some of the providers aren't comfortable with the fact that I'm married. My home situation is that my husband has never really liked sex and we haven't had it in years (and no, he's not gay, wish he was) but we DO have a 'don't ask, don't tell' policy. I find it a bit strange that probably a good portion of their male clientele are married and they don't have an issue with it, but they do have an issue with me being married. My feeling is that I'm paying a substantial sum of money for 2-3 hours of their time, and this is a business transaction.
Does anyone has any insight to providers who would not consider this a deal breaker? I know locally, no one would even inquire, but in Sin City....for the caliber of person I'm looking for, it's been a bit of a stumbling block.
FWIW....I did do this one time previously with my only other lover years ago and the provider did say if I wanted to come with her on calls asking for two women - to give her a call, so I do have access to a provider referral if needed.