Any good ideas on how to avoid the authorities?
ThanksStick to providers who have been reviewed and verified on TER, use a verification site like P411 or DateCheck, and walk away from anything that makes you uncomfortable...
Do not respond to a Craigslist like the one I just posted on the San Diego Discussion Board.
I posted the following on the Legal Corner about a year ago. --z
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What follows is what I do to avoid LE. These are just my rules, quirks, & prejudices. I hope it helps.
1. Screening Service = Yes: don't see anyone who's not on your screening service.
2. TER = Yes; a great source of info. Read your local boards & stay informed.
3. Her Incall = No. You always get the room. You always control the space. Does this mean that you'll miss some fantastic touring providers? Yes.
4. Backpage = No. There are experienced guys on TER who use it. But where I live, Backpage = Sting Central.
5. ATF = Yes. The fewer people you see, the lower your risk.
6. Sugar = Yes. The good news: it's legal & SBs are smoking hot. The bad news: it's expensive & SBs are often selective. So you typically don't get laid immediately. If getting busted will ruin you, then this is your only option.
7. Trust your instincts. Whenever a guy posts about getting busted, he usually mentions that something didn't feel right about the play. When my trick knee twitches, I walk away.
8. STFU. If someone starts asking questions, you don't have answers.
9. A provider with a "driver" or "assistant" = No. If she brings in a third party, cancel immediately.
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5. ATF = Yes. The fewer people you see, the lower your risk.
6. Sugar = Yes. The good news: it's legal & SBs are smoking hot. The bad news: it's expensive & SBs are often selective. So you typically don't get laid immediately. If getting busted will ruin you, then this is your only option.
7. Trust your instincts. Whenever a guy posts about getting busted, he usually mentions that something didn't feel right about the play. When my trick knee twitches, I walk away.
8. STFU. If someone starts asking questions, you don't have answers.
What is ATF and Sugar?
ATF = "All Time Favorite" Provider. The Provider that you see more than any other.
Sugar = Sugar Baby. On average, she's younger & more expensive than a provider. You see her on a regular basis & pay her an "allowance" rather than by the hour.
Be careful. You can spend a lot of money on the two items above. There's a TER acronym guide (and other FAQS) that you can check by clicking on the life preserver icon at the top of this board. --z
I agree with everything..however due to a bad stalker experience i had,for outcalls ive resorted to using uber.
Heres my reasoning.Uber provides a time stamp of where and when i got dropped off,even if offocials cant find my phone incase something were to happen..the copy of my reciept goes to my gmaol account..As a female i feel as though having an uber driver provides proof of my whereabouts incase i were to go missing...cant call moms and say hay im going to such and such house..just saying
I don't get #3. Are you saying never go to a providers Incall?
When I started on P411, I did go to a few provider incalls. And I was always as nervous as a cat. My ATF remembered the first time I walked into her incall: "You ignored me and checked out my room. You even looked in my shower. I was wondering who you were looking for." lol --z
Thanks
Make sure she screens you and be ready to offer her the tools she needs to do that whether it is direct or you registering on a site. Once you have seen a few well reviewed ladies, this all gets easier. Independents are easier for obtaining future references...yet once you get through an agency's screens, you will have more to choose from so I suppose that is a choice on your part. (ask the guys what they think when it comes to this)
If the provider starts to suggest services, etc...cease convo immediately.