.....as long as your life and property insurance are paid up and you have a full-time bodyguard.
Signed,Your Name Says It All
I have seen a few escorts over the years and all of them have been outcalls, I did have one bad experience where the pictures shown on page and what showed up at my door was not the same, in fact not even close. But I went ahead with it anyway, which was a big mistake on my part, lesson learned.
I have seen reviews on here about some guys saying they should have walked away from in calls they were going to when what they thought they were getting turned out to be something totally different and they went ahead with it anyway and turned out they either had an ok time and won't repeat or got bad service and got ripped off or not satisfied like they hoped. Now I know that going in you really never know what your going to get when you TOFTT with providers that are not reviewed, and that is chance we/I take.
With that being said would I be in the right to deny service to a lady who was coming to me when what I thought I was getting an orange and what showed up at my door was an apple, regardless if I would or would not get any of services that I was hoping for or requesting?
Would I be wrong in doing this or would this be acceptable?
Any thoughts
...because they are an orange when you are expecting an apple. First, they would then know where you live and probably your real name. Second they could cause a major scene which wouldn't go over well with your neighbors and draw negative attention to yourself.
How do you avoid this? Do your homework!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You may be a Hornydude but think with your big head, not the little one.
You have every right, and IMO the obligation to turn her away if she lied to you to get you to book the appointment. Every time a guy "goes through with it" even though he was massively lied to he sends the message that this type of behavior is not only okay, but profitable.
Send any ROB's packing and don't even think about giving them a cancellation fee or gas money. Don't reward bad behavior.
I was going to say, "Slam the ham!" but that appears to be the wrong answer.
There is general agreement with GaG about not rewarding B&S, misleading ads or other assorted, if obvious, lies. (Most of us are quite OK with the meaningless lies.)
The only problem is implementation, and that's on you. Terse and abrupt. Confront with on-line pictures. Pay for her gas or Uber? - GaG and others are even against that. I don't do outcalls, so that's an added factor for you.
Send any ROB's packing and don't even think about giving them a cancellation fee or gas money. Don't reward bad behavior.
I have a feeling that there are providers out there that have never fucked a single client....they just pull off this scam time after time and get away with it.
You didn't mention why you preference is outcall and everyone goes about this differently. My preference for a first visit is incall. Regardless of its a well reviewed provider or not. If it's incall and she's B/S, I can leave. As has been mentioned, if it's outcall, it may not be so easy to get her to leave, regardless if it's a hotel room or your residence.
I have seen reviews on here about some guys saying they should have walked away from in calls they were going to when what they thought they were getting turned out to be something totally different and they went ahead with it anyway and turned out they either had an ok time and won't repeat or got bad service and got ripped off or not satisfied like they hoped. Now I know that going in you really never know what your going to get when you TOFTT with providers that are not reviewed, and that is chance we/I take.
With that being said would I be in the right to deny service to a lady who was coming to me when what I thought I was getting an orange and what showed up at my door was an apple, regardless if I would or would not get any of services that I was hoping for or requesting?
Would I be wrong in doing this or would this be acceptable?
Any thoughts?
I agree that it woukd be better for you to go to her...it permits you to do the leaving if indeed that is your choice. Nonetheless, it is our time that is being considered and indeed the contract has been met on her part. Do your HW a bit more thoroughly the next time. And remember that sensuality is more than the flash of meeting...if the chemistry is off on your part and you do not even want to try...Do the honorable thing and meet your contractually agreed commitment. She has arranged and given you her time. Bare minimum come to an agreement with her for the arrangement, but to do nothing other than ask her to leave is not at all ok.
There is enough information out there to make an informed decision on selecting providers. If you choose to TOFTT, then it is on you if what shows up isn't what you expected. When you go to a pot luck dinner, do you refuse to eat if what's on the menu is not filet mignon? I think not, that would just be rude and ignorant.
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If a blatant B/S shows up, I wouldn't offer once cent. They're counting on getting something which is why they continue this behavior. If she goes on 3 or 4 calls a day do the math if everyone pays a cancellation fee, it's a decent payoff and this behavior will never stop.
Now if you're TOFTT and it's her, but the pics are really really old and you decide not to go through with the session a cancel maybe in order to get rid of her without a confrontation.
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Now, I'll agree that when someone goes out and TOFTT, they're sticking their neck out and are gonna have to deal with whatever happens. Sort of. I'll certainly agree that TOFTT in an outcall at your house is borderline insanity. But I'm not gonna say the TOFTT guys are out there to fall victim to any old scam some lady came up with and he should just roll over and take it without pushing back. We need those guys, without em, we'd have no verified providers. At some point, someone TOFTT on every provider here. Besides, as GaG says why encourage bad behavior?
If she shows up and she's heavier and older than her pics and has a good attitude, okay maybe she sort of fooled you. Pay the lady, make the best of it, then go click on "no" or "old" for are the pics accurate, if you're upset about it.
But if it's a total and obvious B&S, send her packing sans donation. No, you don't need to be mean. You don't need to try to make her feel bad. Whatever it is about her you don't like, I guarantee there's some guy somewhere who would like it and would pay her, if he could find her.
Your pot luck metaphor is preposterous. If you're invited to a pot luck, you expect pot luck food, you go and eat it and you say thank you. That's not what we're talking about here. This is more like someone offers you the nice filet mignon dinner, quotes you a price commensurate with same, then shows you to a table full of pot luck food. Let's say pork & beans and green bean casserole. You saying you would scarf it down and pay the filet sized tab? Gimme a fucking break bro.
...the lady being recognizably older and much heavier than she represented. That is deceit. He doesn't owe her anything.
There are scenerios where he might owe her something but not in this case.
I didn't see anywhere he referenced older/heavier.
...he didn't say she was older and heavier. I must have read that in another thread somewhere and must have equated it in my mind with what he actually said which was: "I did have one bad experience where the pictures shown on page and what showed up at my door was not the same, in fact not even close."
I stand by my statement that he owes her nothing in this case. It's still deception when she isn't even close to what was represented by the photos.
.....as long as your life and property insurance are paid up and you have a full-time bodyguard.
Signed,
Your Name Says It All