While I've also heard of providers who just don't like doing that.
If that's what he wanted and he didn't say something to her near the beginning of the session when she wasn't in a hurry, maybe he's only got himself to blame, unless the time she spent in the bathroom really was unreasonable. (Where was that thread about the dude who spent the first half hour of an incall session dropping deuce?) So, as to your question, it looks like you answered it yourself. Haven't seen the review, but it sounds like she waited to get him off until there was no time for another and he's not happy about it. But keep in mind, reviews are not always the 100% factual truth. Maybe she slow-played him deliberately so she wouldn't have to again. Maybe she realizes that a slow build up results in a stronger climax. Maybe she's a YMMV kind of girl and she didn't much care for him. Maybe he couldn't get it going for chapter two and he's in a bad mood about it. Maybe maybe maybe. Who knows what happened?! You say you're not deterred because of her reviews, so don't worry about it. If you want MSOG, be upfront about it, in a sweet way. Communicate, and it'll all be alright!Gents - has anyone ever had a "pacing" issue from a provider? I was reading a review about a provider that I was uber interested in and the latest review had pacing come up as an issue, which resulted in the reviewer giving her less than her usual stellar 9 or 10 mark.
My next question would be, (well actually first one) what IS a pacing issue? The reviewer said he booked two hours but only had time for one so is it a polite way of saying she's calculating the time she's there and controlling the situation? It all sounds like an economy of time question since guy thought he could get multiples but apparently with changing in restroom and the "pacing," he only got one.
He still gave fabulous review and I'm not swayed, just curious if this is a recurring issue with some of the top tier providers or just a fluke. =
Did the client or the escort only have an hour? Who cut the session short?
I guess he expected more than one pop for the allotted time but in the end it only became one, hence he "suspected" her of "pacing" plus he did say the girl did spent a lot of time in the restroom....
Which brings me to another question, IS there an industry standard for the provider's time prepping in the restroom? I PM'd the guy with these questions too but no answer yet so we'll see. =P
While I've also heard of providers who just don't like doing that.
If that's what he wanted and he didn't say something to her near the beginning of the session when she wasn't in a hurry, maybe he's only got himself to blame, unless the time she spent in the bathroom really was unreasonable. (Where was that thread about the dude who spent the first half hour of an incall session dropping deuce?)
So, as to your question, it looks like you answered it yourself. Haven't seen the review, but it sounds like she waited to get him off until there was no time for another and he's not happy about it. But keep in mind, reviews are not always the 100% factual truth. Maybe she slow-played him deliberately so she wouldn't have to again. Maybe she realizes that a slow build up results in a stronger climax. Maybe she's a YMMV kind of girl and she didn't much care for him. Maybe he couldn't get it going for chapter two and he's in a bad mood about it. Maybe maybe maybe. Who knows what happened?!
You say you're not deterred because of her reviews, so don't worry about it. If you want MSOG, be upfront about it, in a sweet way. Communicate, and it'll all be alright!
...thus my confusion...
To me it just sounds like a case of bad chemistry and communication...I would not let it deter me if I was interested in time with her...
In my case I'm one pop and done, so a well-paced 2 hour session is a wonderful thing...
"The reviewer said he booked two hours but only had time for one..." Looks like he just failed to clarify that by "one," he meant "one round," not one hour. That's how I read it, anyway.
In any event, to delve into the OP's question (assuming I'm understanding it correctly), I think some guys erroneously determine the quality of a date based on some predetermined script for how they expect it to go down. This chick may have given him the best singular round of the reviewer's life, but if he quantifies the value of his experience largely on the number of times he gets off, he's setting himself up for disappointment. Two hours actually isn't that much time, and if the guy has a long recovery period or doesn't adequately communicate his needs, then "pacing" doesn't really enter into it. Or, it's possible that he was just insufferable. In this case, the fact that she was repeatedly taking long bathroom breaks hints at the latter scenario. Maybe he was rough, stinky, creepy, demanding, etc. It's hard to say.
For example, take the case of a two hour session: if a guy can get off twice in two hours, but needs about and hour to "reload", so to speak, the first pop should come no later than 30 minutes into the session so that he can begin round two no later than 90 minutes into the session and have time to get that second shot off and still be able to shower and dress without overstaying.
But, some guys are only good for one a day, and so they might feel like they are being rushed to get off in 30 minutes because now he has paid for 90 minutes and knows he is not going to come again. Perhaps he'd be happy with a 90 minute massage after that, but not all guys like that.
So, the guy should communicate his expectations as well as abilities to the gal at the outset of the session so both know what it takes to make the guy happy
I looked at the thread and you weren't here yet, then when I got done with my response, there was yours. Sorry for stepping on your point like that, wasn't intentional.
