I can honestly say that for the most part - with strippers - the con never, ever ends.  They are confused and to a certain extent a bit "out there"  Most will give up all to a dead-beat boyfriend - but if a legit nice guy comes along - they take him for all they can get.  When I go into a strip club - I have a game with myself - what line will they use tonight....  and what will they promise to get me to do the champagne room?  (and doesn't a lot happen there?! lol).

I have gone out with a couple - only to have an angry husband - who found my phone on his wife's cell, call me...  eek!  One that I have gone out with, actually is ok, but a bit bruised by life.  And that is sad.  Why do I see her?  Because when I was down, I would go to the bar she worked and she never hustled me for drinks - we just talked, exchanged phone #s and now we really do talk as friends... she has quit the business of stripping and is putting together a business - I wish her all the luck in the world.

But escort?  no, she would not.  actually she could not psychologically...

I've been to far too many strip clubs, spent far too much time in them, become a regular to more than a couple of girls and have never had this happen to me.  I've only been propositioned once ever and that was done right infront of the bartender out in the open so needless to say she got fired promptly and I never heard from her again.  

It's all a con game with them, as soon as you leave you're out of their minds never to return again...unless you show up again, with money.

if you actually want it. But do you actually WANT it when you finally strike the deal?
 Strippers are far more manipulative and rather confused about their boundaries than the fine ladies we generally see. If I'm up front about what I want, without being rude, the more professional strippers have heard all the PL bullshit many times, and appreciate the honesty.
 Of a few who truly moved me, and to whom I've proposed a deal, 3 out of 4 accepted. I chickened out on two of 'em; only one did I think I could really trust. She's a gem and has escorted as a "second career" with guys she likes.
 But I won't hit any of that any more. TER ladies are just too nice. And reliable.

In over 20 yrs. of hanging regularly at these places, was seldom offered any extras, and then only at dive bars by dancers who would not qualify for the top clubs.  Also, most of the dancers that do work at the good clubs seem to prefer the company of other ladies...at least the ones I was always interested in were!  Better off using TER rather than relying on stippers.  Just my .02...