I will handle this with a bit of sensitivity as well as professionally....Just because I feel, we will all have some issues at one point or another in life. First of all with the sensitivity issue; You need to let the gal know you have it from the beginning. Second be direct and let her know you have this issue (not a problem for most who are used to dealing with it). Also you may want to request a cock ring and/or tantric. And if you are taking high blood pressure medications or anything else that may inhibit you from being able to function the way you want to ...then just communicate that before you see her. There's also Greek as a last resort (still fun lol). Just my 2 cents worth...Hugs always JoJo
Most of the time, the cover is the issue. Perhaps you have been subjected to the cheaper brands that are so thick it is impossible to feel anything. Maybe switch things up and ask your companion to try out the female condoms, they offer a much different feeling. And 99% of all your sexual control comes from your brain, your brain might be in shock and love the new sensation.
Once I stopped lmao over Gator Jimmy's response, I was thinking the female condom might do you some good. There is no way to ask before hand. You either need to repeat with a willing provider, or find a girl thru research and back channeling that routinely carries female condoms. Elle is correct, a lot of it is mental. As a newbie it took me a good 6 months to be able to finish in a cover. You'd be amazed how your body reacts once you learn to relax and be comfortable. So, keep you hands of your pecker and relax...it will all get better in time.