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Sounds fishy to me. She practically asked if she could join you and her husband in bed!
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She busts him, and she's worried that contacting you is going to piss HIM off?  Twice she says she wants you to contact her, if only to tell her you don't want to correspond with her?

She's being suspiciously nice.  Maybe she's fishing for more info.

If we all havent said it once here, we've said it a million times !

I am going to be using alot of exclamation points here. seems when I yell or I am rude its the only time that people listen to me ! ( even my children)

Use a hobby phone- a pre pay phone-
Use a free interent email- yahoo. hotmail.rocketmail.excitemail-hushmail.. The list goes on. Dont use your home email or your work email !!!!!!!!!

Why ?

Because Im fucking sick of careless men and getting emails from their WIVES !!!.. OF course I dont answer back..

Men sit and think all over this board.. wonder if im busted.. Dont do stupid things to get busted is my answer.. Dont use the same cell /family plan you share with your wife or s/o. Dont use the same email that the whole household uses.. dont email us saying.." Please dont email me back here..email me back at this one... We get many emails a day and simply dont have that time to adhere to such a thing..

Be smart ! Play smart !

This is the word of Ciara
Amen.

...Doing stupid things is my idiom. How else will people know it's me?

ahhhhhhhhhhh, don't spit swallow.

Oh...were these your panties? Sorry. I thought they were mine.

Are these some of the same guys who constantly complain about the giving of personel information during screening?

Just not very smart.

Thanks for the reminder...

Just my opinion...
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cell or e-mail.  If they're that stupid, might as well take advantage of it.  Tell them its a SO insurance surcharge.  LOL

-- Modified on 8/25/2005 5:39:18 PM

Hey perhaps us Hobbyist should get a discount when the Provider messes up and does reply to an SO Email or phone call.  !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fair is fair.

And for heaven sakes get rid of that PERVERT!

That isnt a provider messing up...

Its a hobbyist messing up to begin with.

But by all means, i hope to god no one answers these emails back...

Ciara, maybe you should post this on the Newbie Board?  Guys, play smart.  All it takes is one "oh sh*t, I forgot" to get you busted.

But then Id have to be nice about it !  LOL

Mephistopheles_mentor2431 reads

You ladies should cut and paste these hate filled e-mails from your un-aware clients very-aware wives and share them here. I dont know how TER's admin might feel about this idea but it could prove very educational as well as hugely entertaining. Perhaps a specific board could be started just for this purpose. We could call it the "BUSTED" Board and you ladies could supply little anecdotes on the how & why he was caught if possible.
(naturally all incriminating data such as names, dates, addresses, URLs etc would be edited out)

 M_m

Do you cut these guys off?  Do they even try to contact you again?  Maybe they wait for the divorce papers to be filed.  Probably not.  They're probably too broke then!

Seriously, you must take a lot of flak from these women.  They probably blame you for problems in their marriages, while you're relationship with their husbands is really more of a symptom.  Your chosen vocation is much harder than most of us think it is.  We rarely give you the credit you deserve.  Kudos.

Wow, I didn't know my lips could reach 3000 miles to kiss your ass!  How much is the donation for that??

Believe it or not..

She asked me what she should do to keep her husband happy in bed .

I was tempted to write back. I only knew him for an hour. You've known him for  16 years.

He is from Connecticut..

Heres the email ( names taken out)

Hi Ciara -

Sorry to end my other email so abruptly.  I am at work and had to get off-line for a while.

I understand if you respond to me that you are not interested in corresponding, but this is the deal.

I am 99.99% sure that you met with my husband, xxxxx, on July xx in the morning and though initially I was really hurt that he did that, I am okay with it now.  He does NOT know that I have figured out who you are and don't want him to know that.  For your information - I figured it out from the cell phone bill and he was careless with an email he had from you and I saw who it was from and searched the web for your site.  I know that you do reference checks before you meet and respond to people so if you want to check out my work website it is www.xxxxxxx.net  I am a xxx and own an xxxxxxxxxxxx business.

The reason I have contacted you is:  1.  I have seen your website and blog and like to see that my husband at least has good taste! And possibly would be interested in meeting with you if you meet with women.  Like I said in the other email, I have never done anything like this and have never been with a woman before, but my husband would like if I were to experience and I am curious myself and 2.  I think my husband and I have a pretty active sex life, but obviously he is looking for more.  Would you be willing to tell some things that he enjoyed so I can try and do more in bed with him to satisfy him - not that I am trying to take clients away from you ;)  I guess I won't be surprised if he calls you again.

We have been married for xx years and together for xx years so I am not completely surprised that he did this, however, I want to figure out ways to keep him happy!!  I understand if you don't want to share details, but I would be pleased if you do.

I have read your blog - very entertaining and am guessing that my husband does as well, so I would be greatly greatly appreciate it if you did not blog about this because I don't want him to know that I figured out who you are.  I want to be able to use this situation to try and please him sexually, not get him pissed off at me.

Thanks Ciara!  I look forward to hearing from you even if it is to tell me that you have no interest in exchanging emails with me.  Oh and I hope the no smoking thing is going well.  That takes a lot to give up something like that and I have a lot of respect for you for trying.


-- Modified on 8/25/2005 8:57:07 PM

Wont Get Fooled Again2629 reads

Not for nothing, but the spouse's email was remarkably compassionate and understanding.  
I wouldnt be surprised if that couple never gets divorced, especially if Bozo understands how much his wife loves him.

She busts him, and she's worried that contacting you is going to piss HIM off?  Twice she says she wants you to contact her, if only to tell her you don't want to correspond with her?

She's being suspiciously nice.  Maybe she's fishing for more info.

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Now if more women were like her the divorce rate in this country would plummet

this is really a little over the top with this girl. I think she is just trying to get on your better side and then pull out all stops, when she goes to the lawyer (another one of your clients probably).

If she is for real, this guy has no business in the hobby, since his SO is willing to do just about anything to please. If I had a SO like that (happily divorced), I would not be here.

& fuck him in th ass with my strap-on...  how many women want to know that stuff about the father of their children?  

-- Modified on 8/26/2005 6:53:33 AM

I only had this happen to me once......but once is enough!   I had a girlfriend of a potential client email me and ask me why he was emailing me from HER account?   HELLO?   She wasnt as nice as this woman though.........she told me she had "friends in higher places" with a threatening tone.   YIKES! :(

Needless to say....I didnt respond to her and he never responded to me again either!  Whew!!!    Lisa of Boston :)



-- Modified on 8/25/2005 9:33:47 PM

some clients have asked me for another number saying it would be good for my business to have an unpublished number for regulars incase any wives went a'googlin....  so far i've only given my personal number  to one after i found out he was married. with the amount he was donating (2hrs a week at 2 times my asking rate) i decided it was worth it to me.


-- Modified on 8/26/2005 6:03:35 AM

Just a trap i am sure so id email her back.After all she said she was 99.99% sure..

The first email she wrote me was

Do you see other women ? Id love to get together with you..

And that was it... so she changed her mind apparently of how she was going to go about things.

too many things going on in that email to almost write her back

Any email is damaging if i would write it.

-Thanks for the luck on not smoking
-Ive only known him an hour, and you have for 16 years.
- women and bi sexual experience.
-how to make a man happy in bed.
-My blog-
- her compliment to me about him having taste..

no way am i touching any of  it.

Does anyone think i Should call him and give him a heads up ? His office number is all over his site

-- Modified on 8/26/2005 6:20:56 AM

keep it short sweet. wish i could help you but i do not keep records or recall your husbands visit... sort of thing.

especially with the pee thing.. LOL although kinda funny...

but then again not.. anyone knows before coming to me I run a clean cut straight session.I dont practice unsafe practices.. well..bbbj yes..its as far as i go when it comes to that...

All our original emails consisted of was him compulsively asking me for directions , and me- saying :  sure id love to get together and please call me when you get to your destination and i will tell you my directions over the phone.. Why i did that? Because he was compulsive.  in this case. Im glad I did..

There is no REAL evidence he came to see me.. one number to me on his cell phone doesnt mean anything really... he can play it off as if i was looking for tax help.

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