As a rule I don't believe that providers dislike couples. It's just a matter of finding the ones that REALLY like them so your chances of finding a good fit increases. In my searches I have come across many providers that love couples. I always look at her website for a FAQ link. There is where you'll most likely find out if she is couples friendly.
If you haven't already done it, go into search, advanced search. Under the "Price For Service" section there is a subsection labeled "service category". I believe that the last option there is " with couple". Try that (you do have make a "service type" first).-- Modified on 3/15/2016 2:42:38 PM
My husband and I look to providers for our threesomes. We had an amazing threesome w a well reviewed provider, and provided her w an excellent review on this site; overall an amazing experience.
This time we were looking for something different, but have not received any emails back despite contacting several prov and following up. it's frustrating. We are both in our 30s, educated executives and in great shape; and we know the previous provider would give us an excellent reference. Our emails are well-worded and nice and we scour the reviews before we contact the provider.
So what gives? We are new to this, so is it that providers don't normally like couples? Any suggestions?
Some providers will see couples and some won't, but I don't know what the actual percentages are. 
Post what you're hoping to find either on the In Search Of board, or on your local regional board.
Hope that helps!
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...I come across them alot while looking for providers for myself.
Forgive this stupid question, but are you contacting providers that you know for a fact are couples friendly? Like they mention it on their website or ad?
Not a stupid question at all...we haven't come across many (maybe one) that actually says she's couples friendly. We go with reviews and whether they say they "do duos" w another provider, and we just email her and take a shot. I'll take your suggestion though and each "couple friendly."
I'm just wondering if providers don't really like dealing w couples as a rule.
Thanks!
As a rule I don't believe that providers dislike couples. It's just a matter of finding the ones that REALLY like them so your chances of finding a good fit increases. In my searches I have come across many providers that love couples. I always look at her website for a FAQ link. There is where you'll most likely find out if she is couples friendly.
If you haven't already done it, go into search, advanced search. Under the "Price For Service" section there is a subsection labeled "service category". I believe that the last option there is " with couple". Try that (you do have make a "service type" first).
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My thinking is, you will probably get more replies on your local board. Just as we do research on providers, you must also. Maybe try searching reviews/profiles looking for profiles of girls that do doubles with other girls. Some providers will not do an FMF double, they're just not into girls. You could also search for bisexual providers. Those ladies might be up for a 3-some with you even if they have not done an FMF session before.
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that both of you are willing to be screened, especially the female half (I take it you are). Too many times, the husband thinks his wife will agree & the "surprise" blows up leaving the provider on the hook. I've heard that providers will often want to actually speak to the wife.
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A lot of times, women are very nervous and need a very long time to loosen up and it is simply easier seeing guys alone. It takes longer to satisfy the wife and there is an extensive show that the husband wants to watch and the donation isn't substantially more.
I like girls just fine. But I am not strange to say that. Because the providers are all thinking that, obviously, right? I mean, they aren't calling back.
...because the OP probably selected the wrong providers that aren't couples friendly. And those providers are too rude and inconsiderate to spend 1 minute to reply back with a simple "no I don't see couples."
I agree with the poster that mentioned about posting on your local boards about it. You would get more providers to respond to your request. Make sure that you have screening information for both such that both parties are cover with screening.