Clothing requests can add to the intimacy and fantasy of the session.  It can be an equal part of foreplay as the initial conversation.  Sometimes an outfit change can be a good break in the action and add a little spice.

I always have lots of thoughts around this but can never bring myself to ask for them.  Which of us is worse?

However, the whole experience is to seduce each other visually and physically, so I feel that sexy lingerie underneath a trench coat, high heels and stockings is definitely sexy and a turn on, would you agree ?

here goes.  No, I do not make special wardrobe requests at present, maybe I will some day, I don't know.  I do know some girls like to dress up in fancy lingerie, and that's always a lovely sight to see.  However, I think what gbg is referring to is that I have told providers that street clothes are just fine with me, they don't have to dress to impress me.  I'm already impressed, or I would not be there.  To me, ordinary street clothes on the provider just makes it seem more like a civvie date, rather than a p4p meeting.

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My thoughts

I agree with you 100%

That said I love to be surprised. And in particular I prefer something that has not been worn in the provders on line photo's. I think it makes it seem too commercial.

The suspense of meeting someone new and beautiful is enough to get me up.

If I am on a dinner date the dress can be important. I don't want to stand out in a crowd. Thus no super short tight dress.

my eye. Naturally, I remove this garment mentally on several ocassions once our date is confirmed.

Sometimes, I go with the flow and make no request. I do know the lady will choose something that makes her look great which is why I'm there in the first place.

To date, I've never met a lady who declined the birthday suit request.  If she is wearing any lingerie or similar attire when she greets you at the door, I would not say anything until the action moves to BR.  At that point, if you want her to remove that, just tell her gently.